Do you want to know what I think of you?

I think you are freaking AWESOME!


Want to know why?


Here are 25 reasons why!


And I’m not talking about that high-level fluff talk that you read on other blogs.


I’m talking about 25 REAL, meat-on-the-bone reasons why introverted men are so damn attractive!

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1. You are mysterious.

That’s because you listen more than you speak. Thus, you are able to get to know a lot about the woman you are talking to while revealing little about yourself.


Her revealing a lot + you revealing little = recipe for being ‘that mysterious man’ or ‘that sexy stranger’.


Why does this matter?


Well, as you know, women are attracted to mysterious men.


In fact, in the eyes of women, mysteriousness is one of the most attractive qualities you can have as a man.


 

2. Non-reactiveness

Introverts can sink deeper in their minds and thoughts. This makes them less reactive to external things. Why does this matter?


Non-reactiveness is a character trait of alpha males. Think of the alpha guy sitting in a restaurant and eating.


Another man enters and starts yelling at him. The alpha doesn’t flinch.


He doesn’t react. He slowly finishes chewing his food. Takes a sip at his wine. Wipes his mouth. Puts the napkin back in its place in a calm and orderly fashion.


Only then does he get up and kick the other guy’s ass.


Women go crazy for this non-reactive behavior.


 

3. You are effortless.

Because you need less attention, are less loud, and talk less, you come across as effortless. This is attractive to women.


Now, of course, you still need to understand how attraction works and how to talk to women.


But these are skills you can learn.


I know many men that are good with women, both extroverts and introverts.


The point I’m trying to make is the following: Introverted men that are good with women have an effortless style compared to extroverts.


To the woman, it looks like she's doing all the work. This makes her even more attracted to you.


 

4. You are a master at getting women to invest.

Now, I’m not talking about getting them to invest money. I’m talking about getting them to invest time, energy, and thoughts in YOU!


You see, because you listen more than you talk, other people have a tendency to talk more in your presence.


When you make women talk, they invest in the conversation. They open up. They invest time and energy in you by doing so.


But it doesn’t stop there.


Because you reveal less about yourself, she’ll try harder to figure you out.


Translation: She’ll think about you when you’re not around – meaning she’ll invest in you even after you’re gone.


Why does this matter?


Easy. The more a woman invests in you, the more she’ll become attracted to you.


She’ll think you’re special, because why else would she be thinking about you so much?


 

5. You know what you want.

What do women want? This is the question men have been trying to figure out for ages. The answer? Women want a man who knows what he wants!


You introspect more than extroverts. You like being on your own to recharge.


This give you more time to think things through. Therefore you know what you want much better than extroverts do.


This is attractive to women.





 

6. You are better at qualifying women.

Knowing what you want also means knowing what you like and dislike in women. This enables you to qualify women much better, and come from an authentic place.


Qualifying women means you ask them questions to see if they live up to your desires.


For example, if you like sporty women, you could ask, ‘Do you play any sports?’


Why is this important?


When you ask women qualifying questions, she’ll perceive you as being picky.


Now tell me something. What kind of men are picky? Men with options, of course.


So by asking her qualifying questions, she’ll assume you have a lot of options with women.


You must, because otherwise you wouldn’t ask these questions.


Here’s the point: Women love men with options.


Why?


Well, because of the attraction principle of pre-selection.


Pre-selection is one of the most powerful attraction triggers within women. It means that women feel attraction for men if they know other women are attracted to them.


See, that’s were most men make a HUGE mistake.


They try to keep their criteria broad. They think that the broader their criteria, the more women they can find as a match. They believe this increases their chances. But in reality, the opposite is true.


The more picky you are, the more success you’ll have attracting beautiful women.


That’s because of the pre-selection effect implied by your picky behavior.


PUAs have this figured out, and they use lies and fake qualification questions to achieve this.


The difference is that you actually know your preferences. You care about the answers. Therefore, you'll ask AUTHENTIC questions.


It will be real. Women will feel it. They’ll become attracted because of that.


 

7. You are a challenge.

Introverts usually have a deeper understanding of things. This is because introverts process information from many more angles.
So what?


Well, because you have a deeper understanding of things, you can offer different perspectives. You can challenge her more during conversations.


Women love men that challenge them.


Also, when you are able to show them a different perspective, it shows your intelligence.


As you know, intelligence is attractive to women.


Plus, when you educate her on something, you position yourself as an authority.


Think about it. Who else has done this in her life? People of a higher authority. Examples: her father, teachers, bosses, etc.


Women feel attracted to men of authority.


Why do you think so many young girls fall in love with their teacher?


Note: be careful not to come across as someone who loves to lecture her.


 

8. You have a stronger inner game.

Yep. And before you say anything: I don’t care if you don’t feel confident at times! You know why? Because most extroverts don’t feel confident either.


But you know what the difference is?


When you learn about inner game, and put your mind to it, you’ll improve much faster than extroverts.


Why? Because inner game is all about understanding and connecting with your inner processes. This is something that comes much more easily to introverts than extroverts.


 

9. You have a stronger outer game.

Again, before you say anything: I don’t care if you don’t know how to talk to women. Want to know why? Because most extroverts also don’t know how to talk to women.


The difference?


Again, you process things at deeper levels and from different angles. Thus, you are able to get a deeper understanding of things. This includes dating strategies, tactics, and skills.


If you put your mind to it, you’ll get a deeper understanding and mastery of dating skills than most extroverts.


But here’s the deal: you need to look at dating like any other skill that you’ve learned.


Once you do this, it won’t take you long to improve your love life.


 

10. You are a great listener.

Because you are such a great listener and because you process what she says from different angles, you have a power extroverts can only dream of. You are able to explain her problems and thoughts better than she can explain them herself.


That enables you to “get” her at a deep level.


The only problem you have is that you need to learn how to do this without falling into the friendzone.


Luckily, that’s easy. The only thing you need to do is to add escalating touch to your conversations.


When you combine escalating touch with your listening skills, here’s what women will say to their friends about you: “He just gets me!”


 

11. You need less attention.

Introverts need less attention. In fact, you love time on your own. As simple as this seems, this is powerful.


Why?


Because it makes you less needy.


Neediness is the number-one killer of attraction.


Women feel that.


In fact, here’s a little experiment you can try on your next date.


Tell her this:


"You know, I’m the kind of guy that needs time alone to recharge. I know it might be strange to you, and many women have difficulties with this. But that’s just who I am."


I bet you the farm that she’ll say she understands. Watch how she grows more attracted to you after you say that.


Play to your strengths, my friend. You like time alone. Be upfront about it, and you’ll understand how your introversion triggers attraction naturally.


No need for lies, manipulation, or PUA routines.


Just good ol’ authentic you!


 

12. You are better at one-on-one conversations.

Extroverts usually do better in big groups. That’s because they get energy from people.


And in social settings, that can be an advantage.


But dates require one-on-one conversations.


That’s where you shine. That's because you prefer deeper conversations with just one or two people, instead of superficial small talk with big groups.


So while extroverts typically have an easier time meeting new people, they are usually worse on first dates.


You, on the other hand, are better on dates.


 

13. You’re better at creating deep bonds.

Not only are you better at one-on-one conversations, but you love to go in deep in conversations. Creating bonds is something that comes easily to you.


This is one of the most important skills you can have to succeed with women.


“Really, Nick?”


Yep, really!


"But I always get friend-zoned!”


That could be, my friend, but it’s not because of your connecting skills. It’s because of a lack of other skills.


You don’t get friend-zoned because of something you do. You get friend-zoned because of something you don’t do.


Let me say that again. It’s not the presence of something that gets you friend-zoned. It’s the absence of something.


What you lack is escalating touch.


If you add escalating touch to your ability to create deep bonds, you’ll be a modern-day Casanova in no time!


 

14. You are more chill and cool.

Introverts usually have a more cool and chill vibe. Do I need to tell you that a cool and chill vibe is attractive?


Nah. Didn’t think so. It’s self-explanatory.


 

15. You know yourself better than anyone else.

That's because you like time alone and introspect more often than extroverts. That’s important.


Why?


Because it makes you care less about what people think about you.


No matter what someone says about you, you know yourself better than they know you.


This self-knowledge and strong sense of self makes you less sensitive to criticism.


Also, you need less validation from others.


Being less sensitive to other people’s validation is attractive to women.


She wants a man like that because that way, she can count on him to validate her.


Most women need validation. But they don’t like it the other way around.


 

16. You’re better at maintaining eye contact.

Yes, yes, yes, my friend! Introverts are better at maintaining eye contact.


For two reasons:


First, you are better at maintaining eye contact because you listen more than you talk.


What does this have to do with anything? Well, when you talk, you need to access information. People access information by moving their eyes around.


So when people talk a lot, they move their eyes a lot. Therefore, they don’t make much eye contact.


Second, you are also better at keeping eye contact while talking. Why?


Because you think "before" you speak. That means you’ve already accessed the information you need before you start talking. This enables you to talk while maintaining strong eye contact.


Why is this important?


Simple. Eye contact builds attraction. Studies have found that when two people look in each other’s eyes long enough, it builds attraction.


Now, you might say, ‘Nick, you’re full of shit! I’m so shy I can’t keep eye contact at all.’


You know what? I don’t care!


Why?


Because extroverts are also shy and can’t keep eye contact either.


This has nothing to do with your introversion.


Shyness and introversion are two different things.


Introversion is where you get your energy from. Introverts get their energy from being alone. Extroverts get their energy from being with people.


There are shy introverts and there are confident introverts, just like there are shy extroverts and confident extroverts.


But extroverts have a double problem when it comes to eye contact. First, they need to overcome their shyness. Once they do, they still have a second challenge.


Why?


Because they talk so much and they think "while" they’re talking. So their eyes go in all directions and they make less eye contact.


You’re better off as an introvert.


If you are shy, the only thing you need to do is overcome your shyness. Nothing more.


 

17. You are better able to play into her vanity.

Now, I don’t mean this in a manipulative way. I’m not talking about manipulating her into doing things. I’m talking about the following.


We all have a bit of vanity inside of us.


And because you listen so well, you are able to keep the conversation focused on her.


This will help keep the conversation going. People like to talk about themselves.


Woman are no different. It will help to open her up and become interested in the conversation.


 

18. You fidget less.

Fidgeting happens when we’re nervous. Stopping fidgeting requires you to be more aware of your feelings and reactions.


Part of stopping fidgeting is catching yourself doing it, and then correcting it.


Because introverts are more aware of their inner processes and reactions, they have an easier time catching themselves fidgeting and stopping it.


Why would you even care about this?


Fidgeting is one of those invisible saboteurs of attraction.


They are invisible to the person doing the fidgeting. But they’re not invisible to the other person.


When you fidget, you portray that you are nervous.


When you fidget too much, women will lose their attraction for you.


It doesn’t matter how many techniques you’ve learned. It doesn’t matter how alpha your body language is. If she sees you fidgeting, she’ll see that you’re nervous. She’ll conclude that your alpha male body posture is fake.


If you fidget too much, NOTHING else matters anymore. Nothing will work.


That’s how dangerous fidgeting is.


Now imagine the opposite.


Imagine you’re able to have a conversation or a date with her while being completely fidget-free.


She’s probably never seen that in her life. I can virtually guarantee it.


Almost all men fidget. Some more, some less.


So if you can train yourself to be completely fidget-free, she’ll see you as super confident.


She’ll become really attracted to you.


Let your competition focus their time on learning PUA stuff like routines and tricks.


You will focus on having normal conversations without fidgeting. You’ll beat the pants off your competitors!


 

19. You have more empathy.

You have a stronger ability to put yourself in her shoes and imagine life from her perspective. Doing this will allow you to better understand her world. It helps you to differentiate yourself form other men.


The problem is that you probably only put yourself in her shoes when she’s talking about her problems. That’s why you’re able to connect with her so deeply.


But you need to use that natural skill of yours for other purposes too. You need to put yourself in her shoes when it comes to dating.


Just do this, and your natural strength for empathy will reveal a whole new world to you.


Imagine what it’s like to be a gorgeous woman. What does her day look like?


How do men react to her? Are they nervous? How do most men talk to her? What kind of things is she used to from men? What does she hear over and over?


See what I’m getting at?


When you ask yourself these questions, you’ll easily understand her world.


Because you are more empathetic, this exercise will come easy to you.


Once you understand her world, you’ll easily set yourself apart from other men by acting differently. This in turn makes you more attractive.


 

20. You are great at reading her.

You are more thoughtful and focused on her. That allows you to read her better.


This in turn allows you to figure out what she wants, without her having to tell you.


Women love this.


For example: you are driving somewhere, and she asks you if you want to stop to pee. You read her and you see that actually she’s the one who needs to pee. So you say, ‘Do you need to pee?’


Now, of course, this is just an example. My guess is that you even think it’s a stupid example.


But you know what? Here’s a challenge: share this example with women you know, and see what their reaction is.


Why is this so powerful?


When you can read women like this, she’ll assume you have a lot of experience with women.


It implies pre-selection!


 

21. You take great care of your body.

Most introverts (but not all) take great care of their body. A body in great shape gets you extra points.


It’s attractive. It shows that you have self-discipline.


 

22. You are disciplined and structured.

This brings me to my next point. Introverts are usually more disciplined and structured in life.


This makes you successful. You usually have your life well under control.


Which is extremely attractive.


When it comes to dating, you just need to see it like any other part of your life.


You need a structured method to follow. You need a plan.


The problem is that most introverts don’t have a plan to learn dating skills. They don’t see it as a skill. The moment you change your mind about this is the moment that you’ll start to see results lightning-fast.


 

23. You have stronger beliefs.

Introverts usually have stronger beliefs than extroverts. This is because they think more and introspect more.


When you think deeper about things, you typically have stronger beliefs about those things.


Why does this matter?


It gives you a character trait called soft dominance.


Soft dominance is your ability to keep your frame of reference and not get destabilized by people with other beliefs.


Women love men with strong frames of reference. They want a man to be their rock in the storm.


 

24. You are better at managing your state.

Because you know yourself from the inside out, you are typically better able to manage your state and feelings.


When you feel bad, you know exactly what you need to do to feel good again.


But it goes deeper than this.


It’s a crucial life skill.


Why should you care about this?


Because it’s a key quality of leadership. Yes, leadership requires you to manage yourself and your state first. How could you lead other people if you can’t even lead yourself?


Guess what? Women love men with leadership skills. It’s a sign of high status.


 

25. You make a great life partner.

You are thoughtful and attentive. This makes you a great catch! Period.

Conclusion

You are more attractive than you might think. If you’ve ever thought that extroverts are more attractive then introverts, or that there’s something inherently wrong with you – THINK AGAIN!


You are an attractive badass, my friend.


Extroverted men are not better than introverted men.


It might look that way to you, but in reality it isn’t.


They have their own problems. You might get friend-zoned, yeah. But they get rejected in other ways.


Women don’t even want to see them or be friends with them after they reject them.


The result is the same.


They didn’t get the girl either. At least when you are friend-zoned, you get to see her again. And by tweaking your interactions with her just a little, you’ll EASILY get back out of the friend zone.


Accept that both introverts and extroverts have their strengths.


One is not better than the other. They’re just different.


Some women like introverts, some women like extroverts.


Don’t try to change yourself, but instead learn how to leverage your strengths.


The first step to leveraging your strengths is to understand them. And now you do!


Now you know 25 REAL reasons why you are so damn attractive.


So what are you waiting for? Go out and take action. Attract amazing women. Get your love life under control. Become successful in dating.


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