Single and ready to mingle? Yeah, but preferably at home in in my PJs.


Dating is rough regardless of your personality type, but it’s especially taxing for introverted men who only have so much social energy to spend.


The fact that there is almost no dating advice out there for introverts doesn’t make it easier.


In fact, most dating advice makes the problem worse.


It tells you to behave like an extrovert, apply bad-guy tactics or use manipulative pick-up artist routines.


Here is some typical dating advice that probably makes you shiver and shake at the mere thought of it:


“Make small talk with everybody that comes within five feet of you all day long.”


“When you arrive at the bar, immediately start high-fiving everybody.”


“Use magic tricks, games, and palm reading routines to entertain women.”


The problem with all that advice is that it goes against your deepest nature.


Introverts get their energy from being alone, while extroverts get their energy from talking to people.


If you used these strategies, you would be dead tired every day. You wouldn’t have any energy left to manage your life.


Because most dating advice goes against every cell that introverts are made of, many start to think there is something inherently wrong with them.


As a result, they avoid this part of their life. They hide from it by submerging themselves in their work, hobbies and friends.


It’s ironic, because most introverts are a great catch. Most have their career, finances and lifestyle under control because they focus all their energy there. But they take it so far that there is no time left to improve their dating life.


It’s an avoidance strategy. And it’s an extremely dangerous one.


If that’s you, watch out! Before you know it, you’ll be so used to this lifestyle that you won’t even consider “doing it later” anymore.


There’s a big risk that you’ll develop a limiting belief that success with women is just not for you.


This usually ends in one of two ways. You’ll either settle for a woman you’re not attracted to, or stay alone for the rest of your life.


Not really exciting options, are they?


But it doesn’t have to be like this.


There IS a solution. A simple solution.


You need to learn what works for introverts.


There’s nothing wrong with you. Being extroverted is not better than being introverted, and being introverted is not better than being extroverted.


You just need to learn methods that work for introverts. That’s all there is to it.


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1. Choose Venues That You Feel Comfortable In.

Most men think they need to go to bars and nightclubs to meet women.


That’s just not true. There are many venues where you can meet women.


As an introvert, loud bars and nightclubs filled with superficial small talk are probably not where you feel the most comfortable. Although some introverts definitely like a good party, most prefer other venues.


If you go to a venue where you don’t feel comfortable, your chances of meeting women are slim.


But if you go to places where you naturally feel in your element, you’ll have a much better vibe and your success in wooing the ladies will be much higher.


Here’s an exercise you can do that will help you find the best venues for YOU.


Step 1:Make list a of all the places that you like to go to.


Step 2: Make a list of all the places your ideal type of woman would frequent.


Step 3: Cross-map the places your ideal woman would typically frequent with the places you like to go to.


You now have a list of different venues on which you can focus.


Not only will you have more fun and a better vibe going to these places, you’ll also meet women that are a better match for you.


This will make your interactions with them a lot easier and more fun.

2. Learn A Dating Method Aligned With YOUR Venues.

Most men make the mistake of searching for dating advice online without being clear on where they want to meet women. Then, they take in all sorts of information and buy all kinds of products.


The problem with that is that every venue has a different vibe and requires a different approach.


For example, starting conversations with women in a coffee shop is different than approaching and talking to women at the gym.


If your approach is not tailored to the venue, it WILL fail. This leads to strange reactions and unpleasant experiences, causing most introverted men to give up.


Most of your competition is taking this approach.


But you’ll take a smarter approach. You’ll start by listing the venues where you naturally feel great and where the women will naturally be a better fit for you.


And only then will you choose and learn a dating method aligned to those venues.

3. Choose Quality Over Quantity.

Many dating coaches will tell you to approach every woman that comes within five feet of you all day long.


As an introvert, that’s just not an option. You have a limited amount of social energy. If you were to do that, you would be dead tired every day all day long.


Instead of approaching all the women in a venue, it’s much better to just approach a few women.


So, what women do you approach?


Well, you only approach those women that you feel a deep, DNA-level attraction for.


This goes further than just talking to women that look good. It goes deeper than selecting based on what you find attractive. It’s a deeper sort of attraction. You know what I’m talking about.


You’ve undoubtedly felt it before.


It’s that feeling of attraction that feels so primal, that you would think it’s a DNA mating call!


It is my experience and the experience of our clients that if you approach these women, your success rate is much higher. That’s because you will be on fire. You’ll be more witty and on point.


Also, I have found that in those cases, the women reciprocated much more.

4. Spot Nonverbal Conversation Invitations.

Approach anxiety is one of the biggest issues introverted men have.


It’s probably the biggest reason why you are still single.


I mean, you can be a real Casanova in your interactions with women, but if you don’t actually have an interaction your skills are useless.


But, I get it. Approaching a strange woman can be big challenge for some introverts.


I mean, what if you disturb her? Or what if she rejects you, right?


But what if you knew for sure that a woman was attracted to you before you approached her?


What if you could “mind-read” women from a distance and see which ones are sending you subconscious “approach invitations”?


Would you still be scared to approach them? Probably not.


Approach invitations are signals that women send when they feel attraction for a guy.


It’s driven by the oldest part of the brain, called the reptilian brain.


The reptilian brain is preoccupied with our more primitive needs.


Needs like power, dominance, territory and sex. When a woman is sexually attracted to a man, her reptilian brain will unconsciously produce some signals. These signals are meant to reassure the male that she’s open to his approach.


Here are three signals you can look for.


You can look for them in any venue, even when you’re walking on the street or at the supermarket.


• A smile.


• Eye contact.


• A nod.


Make no mistake: Women will avoid at all costs smiling, making eye contact or nodding at men they don’t find attractive.


The exception is if they already know the man. But if it’s a total stranger and they don’t feel attracted, they usually won’t do it.


So if you see any of these three signs, you can be 99% sure she’s into you.


It’s a woman’s way of saying “Don’t be afraid of me. If you approach me, I won’t be rude”.


Now, this doesn’t guarantee that she’ll go on a date with you. She could have a boyfriend, or maybe when you talk to her there is no further chemistry. That’s possible.


But what you can be sure of is that she won’t be rude when you approach her. She will NOT blow you off.


So next time you see one of these signs, just walk up to her and start a conversation.


Here’s how you might do that.


You: “Hi.”


Her: “Hi.”


You: “I noticed we had a little moment there.”


Her (smiling): “Yes, we did actually, didn’t we.”


And you’d take it from there.

5. Create Attraction In An Introvert-Friendly Manner.

Most dating advice will tell you to become a marvelous “entertainer” to attract women.


Nothing is further from the truth.


This advice might work for extroverts, but it’s not suited to introverts.


In fact, even extroverts should be warned about this. You quickly risk being seen as a “try-hard”. The more effort you put into attracting someone, the lower your perceived status level.


Remember that cool guy from school that got all the girls, while seemingly not putting in any effort? That’s truly attractive.


As an introvert, you are predisposed to be more laid-back than extroverts. This means you naturally have a more “effortless vibe”.


This is such a strength in creating attraction! You just need to know how to use that strength.


And after reading this article, you’ll know exactly how to use it.


If you want to become better with women you need to leverage from your strengths, not do a 180 on your personality.


So what is one of your biggest strengths as an introvert?


It’s your listening skills.


As an introvert, you usually listen more than you speak.


That has several advantages.


First of all, you’ll find out a lot about her while having that mysterious vibe.


This, in and of itself, is attractive to women.


Second, your listening skills allow you to deeply connect with women.


Deeply connecting with a woman is an absolute key if you want to date high-quality ladies.


“Yeah, Nick, I know I’m good at connecting with women, but up until now, it only got me a pat on the back, a kiss on the cheek and a ticket to friendzone purgatory.”


I understand where you’re coming from, but let me tell you this:


Your ability to deeply connect with a woman is NOT what got you in the friendzone. It’s not something you do that puts you in the friendzone. It’s something you don’t do.


Let me repeat that.


It’s not something you do, it’s something you don’t do.


Connecting with women is essential. But you also need to add attraction to your conversations.


It’s the absence of attraction and sexual tension that gets you friend-zoned. Not the presence of a connection.


And luckily for you, I’m going to show you exactly how to create that magical, powerful feeling called attraction in a second.


Here’s how you turn your listening skills into babe-getting superpowers.


The next time you’re on a date, I want you to do your normal listening and connecting stuff.


That will take care of the bonding aspect that you need with quality women.


Next, I would like you to listen even more, but this time with a different intention.


I’d like you to listen with a “screening purpose”.


This means you listen with the intention to find out if she’s the kind of woman that you would like to date.


To do that effectively, you‘ll need to prepare a bit.


Here’s an exercise to help you with that.


Its purpose is to get you clear on what you want in a woman.


• What character traits does my ideal woman have?


• What does her typical day looks like?


• What kind of activities does she do? Sports, hobbies, etc.


• What values does she have?


This exercise will get you clear on what you want in a woman.


Once that’s clear, you’ll use that knowledge to screen the women during your dates.


For example…


Let’s say that eating healthy is important to you and you want your dream woman to have healthy eating habits.


On your date, you’ll be listening and building a connection with her like you usually do. But instead of only listening with the intent to “connect” with her, you’ll also listen with the intent to find out if she matches what you want.


You do this by spicing up the conversation with screening questions.


Let’s say during the conversation, the subject of food arises. At that moment you could naturally ask “Do you eat healthy?”


She’ll either answer with a yes or a no.


If she says yes, you’ll validate her by telling her you like that and give your reasons for liking it.


“Nice I like that…eating healthy is very important to me. It’s important for health, vitality, good feelings and good energy. Most people have such bad eating habits that they walk around like zombies.


It’s nice to meet somebody that gets this... I guess we can be friends now (said with a cheeky smile). “So tell me, what kind of food do you eat?” (screening deeper for evidence).


Why is this so powerful?


By asking screening questions, you communicate that you have options with women. You are also subtly communicating that her looks alone won’t do the trick.


In essence, you are implying you are pre-selected by other women. Pre-selection states that women become much more attracted to a man when they know other women are attracted to that man.


It signals to them that you have good genes and you would be a good choice to make babies.


Most men are not picky when it comes to women. What they communicate by not being picky is “I’m so desperate that any woman is good enough for me. Please love me, because I can’t find anybody else to love me.”


You don’t want to be that guy. It’s absolutely not attractive. On the contrary, it’s repulsive to women.


But what do you do if her answer is something that doesn’t fit your criteria?


Let’s say, for example, that she says she doesn’t eat healthy.


Well, you could just change the subject.


Since it’s something that you really care about, your disappointment will show on your face. Our face has many muscles, and around 30 of those muscles are used to express emotions.


By the way, you can only control this to a certain level. And you’ll have some very small reactions in your face that you can’t control.


She will pick up on them and see that she said something you didn’t like. She’ll know she didn’t meet your standards.


Oh, and don’t worry. No matter what she answers, the fact that you ask screening questions will create attraction in her. Even if she fails to meet your standard.


In fact, when women see they didn’t meet your standard, usually they’ll try to get your validation back.


She might say something like, “But I’m planning on eating more healthily, in fact yesterday I was looking on the internet for more healthy recipes.”


By doing the exercise earlier in this step, you’ll know your likes and dislikes.


This makes your future conversations with women more interesting, because you’ll have the purpose of finding out if she matches what you are looking for.


Also, you now have a way to not just connect with her, but also create attraction on top of your connection.


And you do it in a totally introvert-friendly way by leveraging your natural listening skills instead of doing a 180 on your personality.

6. Use Your Listening Skills To Create Sexual Chemistry.

Sexual tension… It’s the driving force at the center of EVERY romantic book, movie, and fantasy.


Yet most introverted men don’t have a clue how to create it.


Luckily, that’s about to change for you.


In the previous step, you learned how to create attraction by leveraging your listening skills.


In this step, I’m going to show you how to leverage your listening skills to create a romance novel experience for her.


Again, no need to become someone you’re not. Instead, we’ll build on your natural strengths.


Most men listen the wrong way. They’ll nervously nod their heads while they’re thinking of the next question to ask.


They are afraid of silences. Instead of listening, they’re inside their heads thinking of the next thing to say so the conversation doesn’t run dry.


Women can sense that. It’s a total turn-off.


Here’s what I want you to do instead.


When she’s talking, really LISTEN to what she says. You do this by looking in her eyes and building a picture of who she is based on the information she gives you.


Once she’s done talking, maintain eye contact and think of what you will say or ask next.


Yep, you read that right. You will think of what to say AFTER she’s done talking and WHILE keeping eye contact.


That will leave a natural pause in the conversation.


Here’s the thing. A pause + eye contact = sexual tension.


Voila! You know now how to create a powerful sexual chemistry by tweaking your existing listening skills just a little.

7. Touch Your Way Into A Romantic Relationship.

Another easy and natural thing that you can do is touch her.


You can touch a woman in ways that build a bond, create attraction and even create arousal.


Touching a woman is crucial. In fact, conversation skills and touching skills are probably the two most important skills you need to become a real badass with women.


If you can hold a conversation and touch her the right way, you will never be friend-zoned again.


There are three types of touch.


• Social touch.


• Seductive touch.


• Sexual touch.


Social touch is when you touch her in places that are socially acceptable, like a kiss on the cheek, touching her lower arm when making a point, etc.


You use social touch right off the bat when you meet her. The objective is to get her comfortable with your touch.


Once she’s comfortable with your social touches, you can then proceed to more seductive touches.


Seductive touch is when you touch her in places a lover would touch her. For example: touching her hair, holding her hand, putting your hand on her waist, etc.


Seductive touches are your solution to NEVER being friend-zoned again.


Sexual touch is when you touch her in sexual ways. For example, touching her breasts.


This is done later in the dating process when both of you are at your place or hers.


You use sexual touching ones she’s comfortable with your seductive touches.


When touching a woman, it’s essential that you use what I call “micro-escalation”.


Micro-escalation allows you to slowly increase your touch in a way that you’ll never be rejected and you’ll never trespass.


For example, if you were to touch her hair and she seemed slightly uncomfortable with that, you know it’s not time to kiss her yet.


Contrast this with this situation: You didn’t touch her for the whole date and then at the end of the date you suddenly launch in for the kiss.


Now that is asking for a BIG rejection and also creating a really awkward moment for her.


With micro-escalation, you will never have that problem.


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