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Staying true to yourself
Most dating advice out there is focused on extroverts.
Here’s some typical advice that probably makes your hair stand on end:
"Go to nightclubs, act like you’re the owner, and make small talk with everybody."
"When you arrive at the bar, immediately start high-fiving everybody."
"Use peacocking (wearing strange hats or feather boas) to attract attention from women and everybody else in the venue."
"Learn how to entertain big groups of people, so that women will think you are the leader."
"Become a great and entertaining storyteller to mesmerize women."
These tactics might be suited to loud, extroverted guys. But when you are an introverted man, using these strategies will do you more harm than good.
Here’s why.
First of all, those typical approaches to dating… it’s just not you. As an introvert, you probably don’t like superficial small talk, loud chaotic places, and big groups that much. You’d much rather have a deeper conversation with just one or two people.
Secondly, learning dating skills is something that should be fun, not something that goes against your deepest nature. Otherwise, you’ll most likely give up before you get results.
And even if you don’t give up, it will take you a very long time to learn how to act like someone you’re not. That means it will take even longer for you to see “any” results.
Third, once you finally get results, they won’t be satisfying. You see, an extroverted approach will attract women that fall for extroverts. And when they later find out this is not who you are, they’ll probably dump you and you’ll be back to square one.
Every type has its strengths and weakness. Being extroverted is not better than being introverted, and being introverted is not better than being extroverted.
However, trying to build on your weaknesses is usually a bad strategy.
You’re much better off staying true to yourself and leveraging your own strengths.
Which brings us to our next fundamental belief…
Introversion is very
attractive to women
Here are two things women really crave that you are naturally good at:
1. Mystery
2. Deep bonding
As an introvert, you have the advantage of having that mysterious vibe, which women go crazy for. But it doesn’t stop there: you’re also very good at listening, asking meaningful questions, and creating deep bonds.
You just need to learn to do it without falling in the friend zone, and we’ll teach you exactly how to do that. It’s actually quite simple.
By the way, most extroverts are awful at creating mystery and deep bonds, and they typically don’t like doing it. Just like you don’t like to be loud and make small talk with big groups of people.
We focus on uncovering your unique attractive strengths and leveraging them. We’ll teach you how to attract beautiful, sweet women who will go bananas for you.
And what’s even better is that …
You Don’t Need To Do
Anything
To Attract Women
When you look at how much effort extroverted men put into creating attraction (being loud and entertaining), you might think that you need to work hard to attract women.
In fact, most dating advice companies will try to teach you complicated routines, long show-off stories to tell, flashy tricks, or so-called “special techniques”
You know, the kind of scammy-sounding ones…
“One Weird Trick That Attracts Women Like A Magnet”
“How I Became a Storytelling God and Attracted 20 Different Miss Universes”
“Renegade Scientist Discovers the Secret to Making Any Woman Attracted At Will”
Hilariously, the opposite is true. Just the fact you are a man makes women attracted to you.
In fact, studies have shown that physically putting a man and a woman close to each other builds attraction in and of itself.
You get that?
Seriously.
Did you hear what I just said?
That means that you don’t need to do a darn single thing to build attraction.
It builds naturally when you are physically close to a woman.
All you need to do is not screw things up. In other words, you just need to not hinder the natural attraction process from happening.
Sadly, most men sabotage the natural attraction between themselves and women by being nervous, trying to impress them, being fake, using tricks, etc.
We’ll show you how to have normal conversations with women that will allow you to let that natural attraction grow. We’ll even show you how to accelerate and amplify that attraction in a totally natural and authentic way.
There’s no need for complicated routines, long-winded stories, or flashy tactics.
Just normal conversations that allow chemistry to build quickly and naturally.
Which brings us to our next point…
In fact, most dating advice companies will try to teach you complicated routines, long show-off stories to tell, flashy tricks, or so-called “special techniques”
You know, the kind of scammy-sounding ones…
“One Weird Trick That Attracts Women Like A Magnet”
“How I Became a Storytelling God and Attracted 20 Different Miss Universes”
“Renegade Scientist Discovers the Secret to Making Any Woman Attracted At Will”
Hilariously, the opposite is true. Just the fact you are a man makes women attracted to you.
In fact, studies have shown that physically putting a man and a woman close to each other builds attraction in and of itself.
You get that?
Seriously.
Did you hear what I just said?
That means that you don’t need to do a darn single thing to build attraction.
It builds naturally when you are physically close to a woman.
All you need to do is not screw things up. In other words, you just need to not hinder the natural attraction process from happening.
Sadly, most men sabotage the natural attraction between themselves and women by being nervous, trying to impress them, being fake, using tricks, etc.
We’ll show you how to have normal conversations with women that will allow you to let that natural attraction grow. We’ll even show you how to accelerate and amplify that attraction in a totally natural and authentic way.
There’s no need for complicated routines, long-winded stories, or flashy tactics.
Just normal conversations that allow chemistry to build quickly and naturally.
Which brings us to our next point…
Pragmatism
Most dating methods that you will find out there are actually kind of complex.
Either there are too many steps in the process, too many concepts and ideas in the methods, or just too many different techniques and skills to master.
Most of them focus on being theoretically complete.
The problem with that is that these methods are practically impossible to implement.
Reality is quite a bit different… fewer steps, fewer techniques, and fewer skills to develop will always beat more complicated methods.
That’s because the fewer the steps and techniques, the less time you’ll need to spend learning them, and the faster you’ll master them.
It’s the principle of focus. Do a lot and you might become average at all those things. Do less and focus on a few things, and you’ll become excellent at them.
It’s the same for dating. You don’t need 20 openers. You don’t need 15 ways to ask a woman out. You only need one default thing to do for every milestone in the dating process.
We help you focus only on the things that matter. We help you find your personal default thing to do for every step, and we tailor them to your personality.
Either there are too many steps in the process, too many concepts and ideas in the methods, or just too many different techniques and skills to master.
Most of them focus on being theoretically complete.
The problem with that is that these methods are practically impossible to implement.
Reality is quite a bit different… fewer steps, fewer techniques, and fewer skills to develop will always beat more complicated methods.
That’s because the fewer the steps and techniques, the less time you’ll need to spend learning them, and the faster you’ll master them.
It’s the principle of focus. Do a lot and you might become average at all those things. Do less and focus on a few things, and you’ll become excellent at them.
It’s the same for dating. You don’t need 20 openers. You don’t need 15 ways to ask a woman out. You only need one default thing to do for every milestone in the dating process.
We help you focus only on the things that matter. We help you find your personal default thing to do for every step, and we tailor them to your personality.