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By the worlds #1 dating coach for Introverted Men - Nick Neeson.
If you want to learn how to attract a woman instantly…
This article will tell you how to do it!
I remember when I first learned about attraction…
And the fact that you need to trigger it in women if you want to date them.
So, obviously…
From that moment on…
I created more attraction during my conversations.
But…
I usually did it later in my interactions…
Until…
One day…
I realized that the faster I triggered attraction…
The easier the whole dating process became.
So…
I thought…
Why not make it easier on myself?
Why not “instantly” create that magical, powerful feeling of attraction?
I mean…
Imagine you have to solve an extremely complex puzzle.
A practically unsolvable puzzle…
Unless you have the IQ of Einstein.
But…
If you solve it…
Miss world becomes your girlfriend!
Now…
Imagine there’s a pill you could take…
You know…
Like in the movie “Limitless”…
And it would instantly give you the brainpower to solve that puzzle…
Why would you “wait” to take that pill?
I mean…
The faster you take it, the quicker you solve the puzzle…
And the faster you’re dating miss world!
It’s the same with creating attraction.
The faster you create it…
The faster women will date you!
So…
If that tickles your fancy…
Here are 5 secrets to attract a woman instantly.
And when I say “instantly”…
I mean…
INSTANTLY!
Did I say it works instantly?
Okay…
Enough teasing…
Let’s start with…
This article will tell you how to do it!
I remember when I first learned about attraction…
And the fact that you need to trigger it in women if you want to date them.
So, obviously…
From that moment on…
I created more attraction during my conversations.
But…
I usually did it later in my interactions…
Until…
One day…
I realized that the faster I triggered attraction…
The easier the whole dating process became.
So…
I thought…
Why not make it easier on myself?
Why not “instantly” create that magical, powerful feeling of attraction?
I mean…
Imagine you have to solve an extremely complex puzzle.
A practically unsolvable puzzle…
Unless you have the IQ of Einstein.
But…
If you solve it…
Miss world becomes your girlfriend!
Now…
Imagine there’s a pill you could take…
You know…
Like in the movie “Limitless”…
And it would instantly give you the brainpower to solve that puzzle…
Why would you “wait” to take that pill?
I mean…
The faster you take it, the quicker you solve the puzzle…
And the faster you’re dating miss world!
It’s the same with creating attraction.
The faster you create it…
The faster women will date you!
So…
If that tickles your fancy…
Here are 5 secrets to attract a woman instantly.
And when I say “instantly”…
I mean…
INSTANTLY!
Did I say it works instantly?
Okay…
Enough teasing…
Let’s start with…
Secret 1 – How To Attract A Woman Instantly By Knowing Women Are Always Watching
How To Attract A Woman Instantly By Knowing Women Are Always Watching
Years ago…
I read an interesting book by a famous dating coach for men.
And as all dating coaches do…
He described the steps of his dating process.
You know…
Step one… do this…
Step two… do that…
Etc.
You get the point.
But what was interesting is…
When he talked about the “introduction stage” of his process.
He said that…
Most people think the introduction stage is when you introduce yourself.
But…
He thought…
This was a totally wrong concept.
He believed…
You’re ALWAYS in the introduction stage.
Cause women are always watching!
And I thought that was a brilliant way of putting it.
Here’s why.
When you think of the introduction “as a stage,"…
You will likely switch on your attractive behaviors…
Only when you introduce yourself.
But by then…
It’s already too late!
Cause they already saw you!
And if you didn’t have your attractive behavior on…
They will have noticed it…
And classify you as unattractive.
(I’ll tell you what behaviors women look for in one of the later secrets).
But first…
There are excellent evolutionary reasons why women are always watching.
And it’s because they are physically weaker than men.
Therefore…
They had to be much more aware of their environment.
Which means…
They developed it more than men!
Think of a mouse…
A mouse doesn’t just come out…
And parade in your house looking for cheese.
A mouse is always watching if there’s a cat out there.
A mouse is always VERY aware of its environment.
It’s the same with women…
They had to be more aware for survival reasons, too.
So obviously… they developed a better sense for this…
A habit of constantly watching!
Now…
You might be thinking…
What type of attractive behavior does a woman look for?
Well…
That brings us to…
Secret 2 – How To Attract A Woman Instantly By Always Having Attractive Body Language
How To Attract A Woman Instantly By Always Having Attractive Body Language
When I was a kid…
My mother always told me to…
Walk tall…
Put your shoulders back…
Push your chest out!
My grandfather used to tell this to my mother…
And she passed it on to me.
And it’s something that always stuck with me.
But…
It wasn’t till much later…
When I started studying body language…
That I understood the deep wisdom she was charring with me!
I was studying Tony Robbins…
He’s considered the number one authority on human behavior …
And he said that…
Our body and our emotions are one cybernetic unit.
Meaning…
That our emotions impact our body language.
For example…
When we feel insecure…
You can see it in our body language…
And if we feel confident…
It also shows in our body language!
Now…
When I learned this lesson…
I didn’t make the link with women and dating yet.
But later…
When I studied evolutionary psychology….
I discovered we developed our attraction mechanisms (which make us attracted to people) back in cavemen days.
And these were times when survival was harsh.
So…
Because of that…
Women grew attracted to men that had certain character traits that would increase their chances of survival.
Like confidence…
Assertiveness…
Dominance…
Etc.
And since two million years ago…
We couldn’t speak yet…
I realized…
These character traits could only be seen in a man’s behaviors and body language!
Which means…
What creates attraction in a woman is a man’s body language and behavior.
Cause what a man feels on the inside will show in his body language and his behavior.
Have you ever seen a guy walk…
And you just knew…
By the way he walked…
This guy was a confident badass?
Yeah?
That's precisely my point!
If you want to instantly attract a woman, you need to always have attractive body language!
Cause body language triggers instant attraction in a woman.
And…
If you only put on your attractive body language when introducing yourself…
It’s already game over.
Cause she will judge you before you even approach her.
Imagine this…
You see a woman from afar.
But she hasn’t seen you.
And she’s eating her boogers.
So you go, “Eeuuw…that’s gross!”
Then, she turns around and sees you.
Puts up lipstick.
Gives you a big, beautiful Colgate smile.
And walks up to you to introduce herself.
You'd be like, "Uhh…thanks but no thanks!”
Cause she repelled you before she even introduced herself.
See what I mean?
When a woman sees you have unattractive body language…
It’s game over before you can even walk up to her…
So…
From now on…
Always have attractive body language on!
Btw…
Here are three things you can do:
- Keep your chin high (horizontal to the floor)
- Shoulder back
- Chest out
Because they show a woman…
You’re confident!
The next thing you can do to instantly attract a woman is…
Secret 3 – How To Attract A Woman Instantly By Using Pre-selection And Social Proof
How To Attract A Woman Instantly By Using Pre-selection And Social Proof
When I was in my twenties…
I had two bombshell friends!
One was a total ten, and the other was a solid eight.
And I noticed that…
When I was out with them…
Women were instantly attracted to me!
I got much more attention from the ladies than when I was out on my own.
They even came over and started conversations with me.
So…
I realized there was something to having beautiful women with me that attracted other beautiful women.
You’ve probably noticed yourself…
When you’re already dating someone…
More opportunities present themselves to you…
Then when you are single.
Now…
Even though I noticed this phenomenon when I was younger…
It wasn’t till later…
When I learned more about the science of attraction…
That I discovered “why “that was.
And it’s because of something called the preselection and social proof effect.
You see…
Studies after studies have shown that…
Women are more attracted to a man when they know other women are attracted to that man.
And when women see you with other beautiful women around you…
That gives that social proof element…
Like…
“Oh, there's proof this guy is attractive cause he has an attractive girlfriend."
Imagine you have to pick a restaurant you’ve never been to before.
One of them is empty.
The other one is chockfull of people.
Which one do you want to go eat?
Of course…
The one where there are many people.
Cause they have social proof going for them.
And your mind goes…
“Well… if all those people are going to that restaurant, they must have delicious food".
See how that works?
So…
If possible…
Make sure you have some preselection going for you.
Cause if you do…
You will attract women instantly.
Now…
That doesn’t mean they will come over to you and throw themselves at ya…
But…
You WILL instantly create the magical, powerful “feeling” of attraction.
Secret 4 – How To Attract A Woman Instantly By Starting The Conversation With A Compliment (But Not Always)
How To Attract A Woman Instantly By Starting The Conversation With A Compliment (But Not Always)
When I was studying evolutionary psychology…
I discovered a lot of different attraction triggers.
One of those triggers is confidence.
When women see confidence in a man…
It automatically triggers attraction.
So…
When I discovered that confidence was a big attraction trigger…
I started thinking…
What are all the different ways I can show confidence?
And how can I show it as fast as possible?
That’s when I realized that a compliment is a very bold move…
And it takes a lot of courage and confidence to give one to a woman right of the batt!
So…
I started testing this…
And the results were flabbergasting…
And it wasn’t just for me…
All my students have told me…
That when they use a compliment to start a conversation with women…
The galls light up!
You can literally see them become attracted.
It’s like walking into a room and instantly switching the lights on.
Except instead of switching on the lights…
You switch on her attraction for you.
And yet…
It’s not always the best way to start a conversation.
You see…
The best times to start a conversation using a compliment…
Is when you see a woman that’s NOT part of your social circle.
And not because it doesn’t work in your social circle…
But…
Because it’s a high-risk, high-reward tactic.
Cause if she has a boyfriend…
Or isn’t interested after all…
Everybody in your social circle will know you made advances on her.
And if you do that with a few women…
You’ll quickly have a reputation as a player!
Which is a bad thing in your social circle.
However…
When you meet women outside of your social circle…
Like in a bookstore…
Or a shop…
Or the park…
It’s a really great way to start a conversation.
Cause you create attraction right off the bat…
Which makes the rest of your conversation much easier!
Secret 5 – How To Attract A Woman Instantly By Teasing Her Quickly
How To Attract A Woman Instantly By Teasing Her Quickly
When I was in 3rd grade…
I would tease girls all the time…
And they loved it!
Remember those times?
Remember how girls liked to be teased?
It’s still the same when they grow up.
You could almost compare it to a DNA string…
You know…
Imagine women have DNA that makes them attracted to you when you tease them…
Well…
Whether they are in 3rd grade or they are 30 years old…
DNA is DNA…
It doesn’t change…
It’s still there…
So…
If you want to attract a woman instantly…
You want to tease her as fast as possible!
Btw….
The reason that teasing women creates attraction.
Is because it’s a form of breaking rapport.
And attraction is created when we break rapport.
Why?
Because when you break rapport…
It signals to women that you are not scared of losing them.
It implies you must have an abundance of women you can choose from.
Cause who would dare to break rapport with his only option.
And as we discussed earlier…
When women know you have other women in your life that are into you…
They become more attracted to you as well!
So…
The question becomes…
How can you tease a woman as fast as possible?
Well…
What’s one of the first things you do when you meet someone?
It’s swapping names.
So...
Why not use that as an opportunity to tease her?
And the way you can do that is by simply “renaming” her…
For example…
Let's say her name is Lena.
You could tell her…
“Lena, hum… You don’t look like a Lena… You look more like a Kelly… yeah… definitely… I’ll call you Kelly from now on!”
See how you’re teasing her right off the bat?
See you how you’re instantly attracting her?
Conclusion On How To Attract A Woman Instantly
Conclusion On How To Attract A Woman Instantly
Attracting a woman instantly is not a hard thing to do.
You just need to know what triggers attraction in them.
Aka attraction triggers!
Once you know them…
The only thing you need to do…
Is instantly use those triggers…
Don’t wait!
Cause the faster you use them…
The faster you’ll trigger attraction.
And if you use them instantly…
Meaning before you even approach her…
Or right during the approach…
You’ll instantly create that magical feeling of attraction in a woman!
And from that moment on…
Your interaction will become much easier!
Cause once a woman is attracted to you…
She will go out of her way to make the dating process smooth sailing for ya!
What strategies have you used to attract women instantly? Share your opinion in the comments section below!
