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How To Date Models: 7 Hacks, According To Science

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By the worlds #1 dating coach for Introverted Men - Nick Neeson.


 
If you want to know how to date models – a lot of 'em – you just hit the jackpot.


Cause…


In just a few moments....


I'm going to share strategies that have been used by some of the world's best Modelizers (womanizers of models).


Some guys have used these tactics to date hundreds of them.


Even Donald Trump has used some of these hacks.


And, noooo….


I didn’t teach them to Trump.


He naturally used them.


In fact…


One of the tips I’m going to share…


Is how Trump rattled supermodel Heidi Klum.


Most people don’t know the truth about this…


Cause mainstream media changed the narrative (as usual).


But I’ll show you what really happened.


Also…


Most of these secrets are based on science.


So…


If you want the NO-bullshit way to date models…


This is it!


(Related: I’m looking for 5 people to enroll in my “How To Date Models” program.


If you’re interested, send me an email at nickneeson@introvertedbadass.com...


Put “How To Date Models” in the subject line…


And I’ll get you all the details.)


Okay…


Let’s get started.
 

Secret 1 – How To Date Models By Getting Skid-Marks On Your Underwear

How To Date Models By Getting Skid-Marks On Your Underwear

How To Date Models By Getting Skid-Marks On Your Underwear


Over a decade ago…


I was talking with the owner of the gym I went to.


He told me a story of a guy who continuously nagged him with questions.


“Do you think if I angle my position an inch differently for my bicep curls, they will grow faster?”


“I read about muscle confusion; how often should I switch up my routine?”


“Should I take these amino acids or those?”


And the owner, who was a brash guy, told him…


“Stop yapping, buddy!


You wanna gain weight?


Just lift till you have skid-marks in your underwear.”


He said there are only three essential things to build muscle.


Lift heavy weights


Eat well


Rest well.


That’s it.


Angling your body an inch more to the right or the left ain’t gonna make a difference.


And he’s right.


My point?


In everything, there's something called the Pareto rule.


Now…


The Pareto rule says that 80% of your results will come from 20% of your activities.


For example.


In business, 80% of the revenue comes from 20% of the clients.


In your home…


80% of the steps you make will be on 20% of the available space.


Same in dating…


80 percent of your results will come from 20% of the activities.


Now…


Why am I saying this?


Well…


When I prepared for this article…


I googled "how to date models."


And most of the articles if found…


Were filled with fluff!


Stuff that doesn’t move the needle.


In fact…


Most articles are just vanilla dating tips.


They simply substitute the word "woman" with "model" and give the same BS advice as usual.


Like…


Get to know her


Get her number


Ask her out


Yada yada yada…


Yeah…


We know that, buddy!


Of course…


You need to get to know her and ask her out and all that jazz.


But…


What are the real needle movers to date models?


What’s the 80/20 rule?


What’s the skit-mark on the underwear of the “dating models method”?


Well…


That’s what we’ll cover in this article.


So, buckle up.


Cause this stuff works!
 

Secret 2 – How To Date Models By Robbing Model Knox

How To Date Models By Robbing Model Knox

How To Date Models By Robbing Model Knox


Remember Goldfinger?


Yeah…


The old James Bond movie with Sean Connery.


Goldfinger (the supervillain)…


Wanted to rob Ford Knox.


But how did he do it?


Well…


He needed to find a way to get “access” to the gold.


That as the most important part.


And for that…


He needed plans.


Information about surveillance guards.


Security codes.


Etc.


So…


How did he do it?


Well…


By first accessing “people” that had access to this information.


It’s the same with dating models.


Models move in closed circles.


Which means the biggest issue is getting access to them.


In fact…


Why do you think photographers date models?


It’s because they have access to them.


And it’s true.


Just about every single photographer that shoots models…


Is dating models or has dated models in the past.


I don’t know any exception to this.


Why is that?


Do photographers all tend to have great game?


No, of course not!


They don't have game.


They have access!


Access is so key.


Cause…


Science has shown that people tend to date people that frequent the same venues and social circles.


So…


The first thing you need to ask yourself is…


Where can you get access to models?


But don’t just think about “venues” where they hang out.


Also, think about “people."


Which kind of people have access to models.


And where can you get access to those people?


So that…


Later…


Those people can introduce you to models…


Or to social circles where models hang out.


Just like if you were to rob Fort Knox.


You wouldn’t just walk up to Fort Knox and start talking to people at Fort Knox!


You’d ask yourself…


Where can I meet the employees of Fort Knox when they’re not working?


Or where can I meet people that know people that work at Fort Knox?


Think like Goldfinger.


Here’s a list of venues you could find those people:


  • Exclusive events


  • Events in the entertainment industry


  • Bars and coffeeshops near model agencies


  • Five-star hotel lounges, bars, lobby & event rooms


  • Fashion shows


  • Miss competitions


  • Photography events


  • Art events


  • Etc.


And here’s the type of people you want to look for at those venues:


  • Photographers


  • People working in the lobby and bars of hotels


  • Club promotors


  • Make-up artists


  • Hairstylists


  • Etc.


Okay…


Now that you know where to go and who to look for…


Here’s what to do next…
 

Secret 3 – How To Date Models By Using The Familiarity Trick

How To Date Models By Using The Familiarity Trick

How To Date Models By Using The Familiarity Trick


I once heard a story from a dating coach.


It was about a girl he regularly saw in a club.


He didn’t know her well at all.


They just said hi to each other on occasion.


And never really spend time together.


At one point...


This dating coach moved to another town or country (don't remember exactly).


The week before he moved…


He was in the club, and he saw that girl.


They had a quick chat.


And he told her he was moving.


And she was visibly shaken by it.


She looked like she was losing a friend.


Even though they never really talked to each other, other than a quick “Hey, how ya doin?”


So…


Why did it affect her so much?


Well…


When you see people over and over again…


You begin to feel like you know them.


It’s a concept called "Familiarity."


In science they call it the Mere-exposure effect.


It’s just another name for the same thing.


And it’s used in advertising all the time.


By being exposed to the same people or brands, again and again…


They feel familiar to us.


And people like what is familiar.


Have you ever noticed when you start watching a show on Netflix…


That…


In the beginning, you don't really like the characters…


But after a few episodes, you start to like them?


That’s the familiarity effect in action!


Now…


Here’s the thing…


Familiarity doesn’t only trigger us to be comfortable with people and like them more.


It also makes us more attracted to people.


This has been proven by multiple scientific studies.


So…


How does this help you to date models?


Well…


Once you know the venues where you can access models…


Or the people that can introduce you to them…


You want to create a routine…


By going to that venue, repeatedly.


Preferably, always on the same day and time.


Why?


Cause people are creatures of habit.


They tend to go to the same venues on the same days and times.


Which means you’ll see the same people again and again.


And they will start to feel familiar with you.


And once they feel familiar with you…


It's easy to start a conversation.


You see…


If you go to a place where models hang out…


And you approach them without familiarity…


It’s going to be a lot harder.


Why?


Cause models are used to being approached all the time!


So…


What do you do once you made contact with a model?


Well…


I’ll tell you a secret that you won’t find anywhere else.


It’s a lesson I learned in Paris a long time ago…
 

Secret 4 – How To Date Models Using A Little Known Secret I Learned In Paris

How To Date Models Using A Little Known Secret I Learned In Paris

How To Date Models Using A Little Known Secret I Learned In Paris


A long, long time ago…


When I was still a “part-time” dating coach…


My day job was managing cultural change projects in large organizations.


And I remember being in Paris for a meeting with a prospective client.


It was a huge company that belonged to the Orange group.


And I had a meeting with the Vice President of Sales…


The Vice President of HR…


And the general manager of Europe.


And I really wanted them as a client.


So…


We had our meeting.


Everything went well.


I asked them questions about their organization and their needs.


And after one hour…


They told me they had another meeting planned.


So…


We end the meeting.


BUT THEN…


Something exploded, right in my face!


Out of nowhere…


The Vice President of HR told me…


“I'm a bit disappointed about our meeting.”


So…


I asked her why that was?


She said…


I asked a lot of questions, and we talked a lot about their organization.


And she liked that.


But…


She was disappointed cause she didn’t know anything about our company and our services.


She told me…


All my competitors had fancy PowerPoint presentations that explained their offering.


And I didn’t.


So…


On my way back to Belgium…


I had this nagging feeling in my stomach.


Cause I really wanted to land that client.


Anyway…


Fast forward two months.


I won the deal.


So…


I take my team…


And we go to Paris for a week to start the project.


And after our first day…


We all went to dinner together.


Beautiful restaurant.


And I was sitting next to the Vice President of HR.


So, I asked her why she chose our company.


And she told me something I didn’t expect.


She said:


“We already chose to work with you from our very first meeting.”


I was confused.


Cause…


I remembered her telling me at the end of the first meeting that she was disappointed.


So…


I asked her why she chose to work with me based on that first meeting.


And she told me…


I described their problem better than they could do it themselves.


And because of that…


They knew I had a lot of experience with companies like theirs.


That’s when I learned a valuable lesson.


When you can demonstrate that you know someone’s world…


You gain a lot of points.


And even if there are things about you, they don’t like…


The trust is so high that they still choose you above others.


My point?


It’s the same with models.


Once you're talking with a model...


You want to demonstrate you know her world.


Why?


Because when you do…


She’ll know you are a part of her world.


And we know, from science…


That people tend to date people that are part of the same world.


But there’s another reason why it’s so powerful.


And it’s this.


She’ll most likely think that you dated other models before.


Cause otherwise, how do you have all that insider information?


And that flips her pre-selection switch.


Pre-selection means…


That women become attracted to men when they know other women are attracted to those men.


This also has been scientifically proven...


Repeatedly!


But…


She'll not just think you're preselected by other women…


She’ll think you’re preselected by other “models."


Which is even more powerful.


So…


Here’s my golden tip.


Study the life of models.


Buy books about it.


That way…


You’ll AVOID asking her lame questions most guys ask her.


Like…


“Oh, you’re a model! Cool! What’s it like?”


No Bueno!


Instead…


You'll ask questions that show her you know her world.


For example…


When she says she's a model…


You can ask her if she does print or editorial.


Just the fact that you know that…


Will signal to her you know her world.


And she won’t expect it.


Now, of course…


That’s just one example.


There’s much more to know about models, their lives, their challenges, etc.


Okay.


So now that you’re having a conversation with her…


How do you take it further?


That’s what we’ll cover next…
 

Secret 5 – How To Date Models Using The Anti-PUA Method

How To Date Models Using The Anti-PUA Method

How To Date Models Using The Anti-PUA Method


I always cringe when I read about pick-up artists and their methods.


Their view of the world is so narrow.


For example…
They believe you must try and bang every woman you meet.


And that being friends with a woman is for losers.


But nothing is further from the truth.


And it's a foolish way of looking at things.


Especially if you want to date models.


Why?


Cause models (as well as most beautiful women)…


Are usually in a relationship.


Cause when they are single.


They have tons of guys pursuing them.


Which means they don’t stay single for long.


So…


If you hit on her…


You’ll likely get rejected.


Cause she’s already dating someone.


A much better way is to become friends with her.


That has multiple advantages.


First of all…


Now you have a model as a friend.


Can you imagine the pre-selection that gives you with other women?


Second…


She’ll introduce you to other women and all her friends.


And when one of her model friends becomes single…


She’ll hook you up.


Third…


Once she becomes single…


You’ll be the first to know.


Which means you can make your move during the dating window.


The dating window is the time when a model is single.


And that, my friend, is the best strategy to date models.


And A LOT of them.


Now…


There’s one more thing you can do to maximize your chances of dating a model.


Here’ it’ is…
 

Secret 6 – How To Date Models By Understanding How Donald Trump Rattled Supermodel Heidi Klum

How To Date Models By Understanding How Donald Trump Rattled Supermodel Heidi Klum

How To Date Models By Understanding How Donald Trump Rattled Supermodel Heidi Klum


Once upon a time...


Donald Trump was asked a question by a reporter about Heidi Klum…


And he said five words that rattled her for a long time.


Wanna know what he said?


Here it’ is…


Bear in mind…


At the time he said it, she was out of the Supermodel business.


She had 4 kids, and she simply wasn't a Supermodel anymore.


Okay…


So…


He said…


“She’s no longer a ten.”


And she had a lot to say about it.


Including:


“…[women] do so many things, so in my book, every woman is a 10.”


And of course…


The press wrote headline after headline about how Heidi Klum put Trump back in his place.


But what they didn’t say…


Was that she was utterly rattled about it.


How do I know?


Cause she kept bringing it back up in the media.


And each time…


She was angrier…


And more rattled than the time before.


All because Trump said she was “no longer a 10.”


Now…


My point here is not to glorify Trump’s comment.


Nor do I suggest you say that to a model.


But…


One of the things Trump played brilliantly…


Was…


He positioned himself as the “selector.”


He stole the frame of women.


Cause most women consider themselves the “selectors.”


Especially models.


Cause they “select” who they date.


And the men are merely being “chosen” by the models.


And when you can make models see you as the “selector”…


And that they “might be chosen” by you…


That automatically implies she has competition.


That you have an abundance of models, you can choose from.


Cause you can only be the selector if you have options.


A man without options…


Can’t be the selector.


He’s happy when a woman selects him.


See the difference?


Powerful, POWERFUL STUFF!
 

Secret 7 – How To Date Models Using Alternative Ways

How To Date Models Using Alternative Ways

How To Date Models Using Alternative Ways


The steps I showed so far in this article…


Are the most efficient ones to date models.


A LOT of them.


Why?


Cause you’re leveraging “access” and “relationships."


But…


There are other ways.


For example…


You can also learn how to meet models during the daytime.


You see…


Models need to eat and shop, too.


So…


From time to time, you’ll see them on the street.


And if you know how to go about it…


You can easily approach them on the street or at a grocery store.


You can also find out where the modeling agencies are in your city.


And then hang around there.


You'll see many models on their way to or on their way back from the modeling agency.


Another way to meet models is by going to high-end nightclubs.


And yes…


There’s a special formula to meet models at night clubs too.


But I’m not going to cover this here.


Cause that would make the article way too long.


And lastly…


You can meet them online.


One of the best places is Instagram.


Many models start their careers on Instagram.


By the way…


If you want to learn how to meet and date models on Instagram…


Shoot me an email at nickneeson@introvertedbadass.com...


Put “How To Date Models” in the subject line…


And I’ll get you all the details.
 

Bonus Secret – How To Date Models While Getting Paid For It

How To Date Models While Getting Paid For It

How To Date Models While Getting Paid For It


As you know…


I've modeled many introverted badasses (introverts naturally good with women) over the past 35+ years.


And one of the guys I modeled…


Had a great system to meet models.


He simply made photographing his hobby.


Then he offered his services to models.


In the beginning, he did it for free.


Then he asked $50 for it.


And he kept increasing his prices.


The result?


Not only was he continuously dating models…


He even got paid for it.


Btw…


This is simple to do.


In fact…


There’s a repeatable process that leverages this exact strategy.


If you’re interested to know more…


Shoot me a message at nickneeson@introvertedbadass.com


Put “How To Date Models” in the subject line…


And I’ll get you all the details.
 

Conclusion On How To Date Models


Conclusion On How To Date Models

Conclusion On How To Date Models


Dating models is considered a hard thing to do.


But…


In reality…


When you follow the proper process…


It’s simple.


Not easy.


But simple.


Cause there is some work involved.


It’s like pushups.


They are also simple but not easy to do.


Anyways…


If you want to date models…


The only thing you need to do…


Is follow the strategies I outlined in this article.


And you’ll be fine.


Oh…


Btw…


If you want help implementing these strategies…


I have a program called “How To Date Models”…


Which teaches you exactly “how” to implement these tactics and a lot more I couldn’t cover in this article.


If that tickles your fancy…


Shoot me a message at nickneeson@introvertedbadass.com


Put “How To Date Models” in the subject line…


And I’ll get you all the details.


Have a great day.


Nick
 
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