How To Get A Hot Girl: The 6 Biggest Levers To Pull
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By the worlds #1 dating coach for Introverted Men - Nick Neeson.
If you want to discover how to get a hot girl ...this article will be pure gold for you.
Cause in it...
I will show you the most important levers that get you the hottest of the hottest women.
Also…
If you’re serious about getting hotter women…
I'm going to work with a handful of introverts over the following months.
We’ll dive deep into exactly how to get hot girls.
As well as many other dating tactics, especially for introverted men.
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Alright...
Let's get rolling.
Here are the 6 biggest levers you can pull to get a hot girl.
Cause in it...
I will show you the most important levers that get you the hottest of the hottest women.
Also…
If you’re serious about getting hotter women…
I'm going to work with a handful of introverts over the following months.
We’ll dive deep into exactly how to get hot girls.
As well as many other dating tactics, especially for introverted men.
If that tickles your fancy…
Shoot me a message at nickneeson@introvertedbadass.com...
Put “How To Get Hot Girls” in the subject line…
And I’ll get you all the details.
Alright...
Let's get rolling.
Here are the 6 biggest levers you can pull to get a hot girl.
Lever 1 – How To Get A Hot Girl Using The Mere-Exposure Effect
How To Get A Hot Girl Using The Mere-Exposure Effect
Many suns ago...
I read research from Dr. Robert Zajonc...
A social psychologist...
Known for his decades of work on a wide range of social and cognitive processes.
And he discovered the main contributing factor in people becoming couples...
Is what he calls The Mere-Exposure effect.
Which means that the more we get exposed to someone...
The more attractive we find that person.
In fact...
There was an experiment done in 1992 which demonstrated this effect.
A college class was exposed to four women that were of similar appearance.
These women had to attend a different number of classes.
And the more classes they attended...
The more other students found them attractive.
But…
They didn’t only find them more attractive.
They also considered them more familiar and similar.
So…
We know that the more someone sees you…
The more they become attracted to you.
Now…
How does that relate to getting a hot woman?
Well...
The first and most crucial factor in getting a hot girl…
Is what I call “access.”
You see…
You need to have access to them.
And you need to have repeated access to them.
Which means you need to frequent the places where hot girls hang out.
Why do you think so many photographer’s date models?
It’s because they have access to them.
And they see them again and again.
(It’s hard to date someone if you don’t have access to them.)
So...
If we accept that to be true...
Then the question becomes...
“Where do hot girls hang out?”
So…
The first step is to ask yourself that simple question.
And then...
Make a routine of going to those venues over and over again.
For example...
Let’s say you know there are some hotties at certain charity events…
Well...
Make sure you hang out at those charity events!
Cause that way...
You'll build familiarity...
Similarity...
And attraction…
All at the same time...
By leveraging the mere-exposure effect!
Now…
Once you do that...
Here’s something else you can use to maximize your chances of attracting hot women.
Lever 2 – How To Get A Hot Girl Using The Goldfish Trick
How To Get A Hot Girl Using The Goldfish Trick
I once read about a study on mating preferences in goldfish.
And the study revealed that a significant factor in how female goldfishes select male goldfishes...
Is how successful the male is in attracting other females.
In other words...
The females first looked at how successful the males were in attracting other females...
And then they chose the most successful one.
Amazing, isn’t it?
We call this phenomenon Pre-selection
And it’s not only with goldfish.
It’s also with humans.
In fact...
There are many studies on that subject.
One of them did a fascinating test.
They showed a picture of a man to a bunch of women and asked them to rate his attractiveness.
Then they took that same picture of that same man...
And photoshopped women into the picture.
So now there were two women in the picture that were smiling at the guy.
Then…
They gave this photo to another group of women.
And asked them to rate the guy's attractiveness.
And I don’t remember the exact numbers.
But…
The same guy got rated 20 to 30% more attractive in the second picture.
So…
He became much more attractive just by adding women into the shot.
My point?
If you want to date the hottest girls...
You want to tap into the power of pre-selection.
Cause when you do...
You're seen as at least two or three points more attractive.
Which makes this a potent tactic.
Especially if you’re not blessed in the looks department.
Or…
If you want to date women that are out of your league!
So how do you create that pre-selection effect?
Well…
Remember when we talked about going to the venues where the hottest girls are?
So...
When you go to these venues...
Make sure you have women with you.
Have one or two girls with ya!
One is already enough.
But two will make you look like a Rockstar.
And the best part about is this.
They don’t even need to be your girlfriends.
They can be friends or even family members.
Which is an easy strategy for introverted men to apply.
Cause introverts are usually very good at befriending women.
So...
Befriend some women and then take them with you.
But what if you can’t take these women with you?
What if they don’t want to go to that venue.
Let’s continue with the example of the charity event.
Maybe your friends can’t join you.
No problem.
There’s another way you can use this strategy.
You see...
When you're at the event...
And you talk to women…
You can simply invite them to another social event or activity that you are doing with your girlfriends.
They will most likely accept this cause it’s not a date proposal.
It's a social invitation to a group thing.
Then once they see you there with your these hot women...
Boom!
Attraction gets triggered there!
See what I mean?
Very powerful.
Next up…
Lever 3 – How To Get A Hot Girl With The Wolf Of Patience Street
How To Get A Hot Girl With The Wolf Of Patience Street
Once upon a time, there was a young and an old wolf.
They were standing on the top of a hill.
The young wolf spots a herd of sheep down the hill.
And he says to the old wolf...
"Quick! Let's run down the hill and grab one of the sheep."
To which the old wolf says…
“No. Let’s take our time. Get there slowly. And GET ALL THE SHEEP!”.
Moral of the story?
Patience pays.
Especially if you want to date the hottest women.
Why?
Cause the most beautiful women are usually already dating someone.
Which means, you need to wait until they are single again.
Now...
Of course...
There are exceptions.
But usually, that’s the way it is.
So…
How do you make sure you’re there when they become single again?
Well...
That’s what we’ll talk about next…
Lever 4 – How To Get A Hot Girl By Getting Back Into The Friend Zone
How To Get A Hot Girl By Getting Back Into The Friend Zone
When I was younger, I was friends with a couple.
We hung out regularly.
I often went to their home.
And we were genuine friends.
Then…
They broke up.
And I remember I did my best to bring them back together.
Cause I thought they were a lovely couple.
But I failed.
And so…
One day…
I was hanging out with her...
And she complained she couldn't find guys that she liked.
You know…
The "where have all the good men gone?" song.
And she hinted that she wanted to start a relationship with me.
Did I do it?
Nope!
I didn’t.
Cause I didn’t want to betray my friend.
But I could have done it if I wanted it.
That was one of the moments in my life that made me realize the best way to get a hot girl is to be friends with them first.
Cause as we discussed earlier…
The hottest women are usually taken.
And if you want to date them...
You need to be there when they become single.
And the only guaranteed way to be the first to know about this...
Is to be their friend.
It’s like in business.
If a company is using a competing product and you want them to switch to yours…
Cold calling is usually NOT effective!
Why?
Cause the client is already using a competing product.
And assuming he's happy with that product...
You won't stand a chance!
But if you build the relationship with your potential clients first...
And keep in touch with them...
Then…
When they need your product...
They'll call you!
Now...
You might be thinking:
“Nick, I worked so hard to stay out of the friendzone! And now you’re telling me to get back into it? Are you crazy or what?”
Well…
If that’s your concern…
Read the next tip.
Oh…
Btw…
If you’re more on the introverted side of the spectrum…
And you’re serious about getting hotter women…
I'm going to work with a handful of introverts over the following months.
We’ll dive deep into exactly how to get hot women laugh.
As well as many other dating tactics, especially for introverted men.
If that tickles your fancy…
Shoot me a message at nickneeson@introvertedbadass.com...
Put “How To Get Hot Girls” in the subject line…
And I’ll get you all the details.
Okay.
Let’s talk about the next big lever to get hot girls…
Lever 5 – How To Get A Hot Girl Using The “Grab ‘em By The Opportunity” Method
How To Get A Hot Girl Using The “Grab ‘em By The Opportunity” Method
Ever been lost in your thoughts while driving?
I remember one day I was in my car, waiting at a red traffic light.
And I was deeply lost in my thoughts.
You know…
I was in an alternative world...
And time stood still.
But then…
I heard someone aggressively honking the horn.
That’s when I realized the light had changed from red to green.
My point?
When there's a green light, and you make people wait...
They get annoyed!
And it’s the same with women.
You see…
There is a window of opportunity when women are open to date someone new.
I call it the availability window.
So what’s the availability window?
Well…
Simple.
It’s when they are single.
Which means you now have a green light to go for it.
And if you don’t make your move during that availability window.
Women feel like you rejected them.
And that's when they put you in the friend zone.
So…
If you've ever been worried about the friend zone...
Don't be!
Women don't put you in the friend zone because you are friends with them while they are in a relationship.
They put you in the friendzone when the lights turn green…
And you don’t make a move fast enough.
In fact...
The friendzone is NEVER the problem.
Cause the friendzone, as people describe it...
Doesn't even exist!
You see…
Women sleep with their friends all the time.
So being in the friend zone is not the issue.
The issue is when you're in the no-sex zone.
Let me explain.
There's a sex zone and a no-sex zone.
There are friends that women have sex with and friends they don’t have sex with.
It’s not being friends that’s the problem.
The problem is when you don’t make your move during the availability window.
That’s when they put you in the no-sex zone...
Cause they get annoyed.
Just like people get annoyed when you don’t move when the traffic lights jump to green.
In fact…
For women…
When you don’t make a move or wait too long when the lights are green…
They take it as a rejection!
This is something most guys don’t know.
The reason you land in the no-sex zone is that there was a moment...
Where she wanted you to make a move...
And you didn’t!
And as I said…
Women take this as a rejection.
And to get even with ya...
They put you in the no-sex zone!
Yep...
Women are not Jesus Christ!
They don’t turn the other cheek.
They get revenge. lol!
So...
Now that you know...
You need to Grab ‘em By The Opportunity ;-)…
The question becomes...
How do you do that?
Which brings us to the next tip…
Lever 6 – How To Get A Hot Girl Through The Magic Of Escalation
How To Get A Hot Girl Through The Magic Of Escalation
The best way to capitalize on the availability window is to use something we call...
Escalation.
So…
What is escalation?
Let me tell you a quick story to explain it.
It was a sunny Saturday noon.
My ex-girlfriend and I were walking in the city.
And we ran into a couple of old friends.
So…
We all went for a quick drink together.
And during our drink, we talked about the good old times.
And everyone really got in the nostalgia mood!
Then I said…
“You know what? Why don’t you come over for a little dinner party at our place this weekend?”
Everybody instantly agreed.
And we had a great little dinner party.
So what’s the point of this story?
Well…
When you put people in the right mood...
It’s easy to get them to take action.
It’s the same with women.
Escalation is all about making women crave you sexually.
And once they do...
You capitalize on their desire for you!
Here’s how it works.
There are three types of escalation.
Verbal escalation.
Physical escalation.
Logistical escalation.
Verbal escalation is when you use your words to make women think of you in a very primal way.
It’s about making them crave your body.
About intriguing them in a sexy way.
About making them think what it would be like to have sex with you.
To put it simply.
It’s all about arousing them.
Cause if women are not aroused by you...
They won’t sleep with you.
It’s like asking people to come to your place for a diner party when they are NOT in the mood for it.
Chances are slim they will accept.
But…
If they first crave it...
The only thing you need to do is “invite” them.
Now...
Getting women aroused with words isn’t enough.
You also need to physically escalate.
Cause sex is a physical act.
And, no…
You can’t just whip out your willy!
That would be a turn-off.
You see…
There’s an art to physical escalation.
And you want to respect that art.
Basically...
You want to physically escalate in incremental steps.
And there are three stages to this.
Three types of touches.
Social touch.
Seductive touch.
And sexual touch.
Social touch is when you touch women in socially acceptable places.
Like shaking hands, high-fiving, etc.
Seductive touch is when you touch women in more sensual places.
Like touching her hair, holding hands, etc.
And sexual touch is when you touch them sexually.
Like touching her breasts, etc.
And so...
On top of the verbal escalation...
You also want to physically escalate.
And of course…
You can’t fully escalate to sex if you don’t logistically escalate.
Logistical escalation is all about escalating towards more and more private venues…
Ultimately ending up in your or her bedroom.
But it all starts by arousing them.
Cause if they’re not aroused...
They won’t allow the physical escalation nor the logistical escalation.
Conclusion and Final Thoughts On How To Get A Hot Girl
Conclusion and Final Thoughts On How To Get A Hot Girl
Getting hot chicks requires a different approach to getting average ones.
The hottest girls are usually harder to get.
Which means you’ll need to step up your game and be more attractive.
Also…
The hottest women are usually in a relationship.
Not always... but usually.
(I was lucky to meet my girlfriend when she was NOT in a relationship.)
But…
Most of the time...
That's not the case...
And you need strategies to deal with it.
Luckily there’s a simple method for this.
All you have to do is follow the tips from this article...
And you'll be fine!
Okay…
Gotta go.
Oh... I almost forgot…
If you’re more on the introverted side of the spectrum…
And you’re serious about getting hotter women…
I'm going to work with a handful of introverts over the following months.
We’ll dive deep into exactly how to get hot women laugh.
As well as many other dating tactics, especially for introverted men.
If that tickles your fancy…
Shoot me a message at nickneeson@introvertedbadass.com...
Put “How To Get Hot Girls” in the subject line…
And I’ll get you all the details.
Take it easy.
Nick
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