I have a quick tricky question for you.


Yep, you read that right. I said a TRICKY question.


How can you tell if a girl likes you?


Answer with whatever comes to mind first. Do it quickly.


Like, RIGHT NOW!


So what did you come up with?


I’m willing to bet that just like most introverted men, you’ve read hundreds of dating articles that tell you things like:


• When she licks her lips.


• When she tilts her head to one side.


• When she plays with her hair.


When I talk to our clients about signs of attraction, they usually tell me about when they first read about this stuff.


They thought to themselves, “That’s great! I’ve noticed this before, but I never paid attention to it. Gosh, thinking back on it, how many times did I miss these signals? …But now that I know them, I can look for them and I’ll know when a woman is interested in me.”


Well, there’s just one tiny little problem with this.


These are MAJOR signs of interest and women don’t give off these signs as much as we would like them to.


In fact, the attraction signs that women give off are different based on the situation, her mood, her personality, and her culture.


For example, a more extroverted and alpha type of woman might do the following when she’s attracted to a man:


• She might become louder to get your attention.


• She might even become more egotistical and bitchy. This is her way of testing you. She wants to see if you can handle her.


To the average guy, this comes across as her not being interested in him at all. I mean, she didn’t play with her hair, right? Instead, she’s acting bitchy.


Because he misreads her signals, he fails to pass her test and she loses all interest in him.


Here’s another example. Let’s have a look at a more shy woman.


When a shy woman sees a man that she’s attracted to, she might become more quiet. In fact, she might not give him ANYTHING to work with at all.


To most men this can look like she’s a cold person, and they’ll give up.


They’ll give up, even though she was interested!


I’ll say that again: They’ll give up, even though she was interested!


SHE WAS INTERESTED!


Did I tell you she was interested?


The problem is that they TOTALLY misread the situation. They were looking for the super obvious Hollywood-movie attraction signals.


As a result, they failed miserably!


But you won’t be making that mistake.


After reading this post, you’ll know more about signs of attraction then 99% of your competition.


You’ll know exactly what to look for and what NOT to look for.

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The Pros and Cons of Signs of Attraction

There are both advantages and disadvantages to understanding attraction signs.


Let’s start with the advantages first.


The first and most important advantage of knowing how to recognize the subtle “micro” signs of attraction is that it builds your confidence like nothing else.


Once you know how to recognize them, you’ll start to notice them more and more.


The more you notice them, the more you’ll grow confident. You’ll start to see yourself more and more as an attractive man. And the more confident you grow, the more signs of attraction you’ll get as a consequence.


It’s a POSITIVE vicious circle, and it works wonders.


The second advantage of recognizing these attraction signs is that they increase your success rate.


If you approach women that give you signs of attraction, you’ll get better results and fewer rejections.


Now, before you rub your hands, here’s a warning.


There’s also a BIG downside to looking for signs of attraction. Especially if you look for these super obvious Hollywood-movie attraction signs.


The downside is that most women will not give off these obvious signs.


And that causes most men to believe she’s not interested.


In reality, women give off much more subtle signs. And if you know how to recognize them, then you have yourself a winning ticket.


In this post, I’ll give you a ton of proven “micro” signs that women give off when they feel attraction for a man.


And I’m also going to give you the ONLY100% sure tell sign that is ALWAYS there, in ANY woman, ANYTIME, ANYWHERE.


It’s the only sign that is 100% RELIABLE. ALWAYS. PERIOD.


Understand this one sign and how to spot it and you’ll NEVER miss it again. Yes, I said NEVER. I know it’s a giant generalization, but keep reading and you’ll find out it’s 100% ACCURATE.


But first things first. Let’s start with some signs you can look for during the daytime.

Daytime Signs of Attraction

When you’re going about your day, you see MANY women.


How can you know which women are attracted to you and open to a conversation?


Here are a few signs to watch for during the day:


1. Makes eye contact


2. Smiles at you


3. Nods at you


Make no mistake—women will avoid at all costs making eye contact, smiling at, or nodding at a man they don’t find attractive.


The exception is if they already know him. But if a woman doesn’t know you and she does one of those three things, you can be 99% sure she’s attracted to you.


Smiling, nodding or making eye contact is a woman’s way of letting you know that she wouldn’t be rude if you approached her. What she’s unconsciously saying is, “Don’t be afraid to approach me, I won’t blow you off”.


Think about it—if you smile at someone, nod at someone or make eye contact with someone, it’s socially inappropriate to be rude to them when they come talk to you after that point.


Now, that doesn’t mean she’ll give you her number or go on a date with you. I mean, she might be married or have a boyfriend, or maybe there is no further click when you talk to her.


But at least you can be sure she’ll give you a warm welcome when you approach her.


Also, it doesn’t have to be long eye contact, a big smile or a big nod.


Just a small glance, a little smile or a micro-nod is enough.


Most men think they have to get big signs. THAT’S A MYTH!


These signals are driven by the oldest part of her brain, called the reptilian brain. The reptilian brain is only concerned with our most primitive needs, like power, territory and sex.


Basically, what a woman is telling you when she gives you these signals is that she is sexually attracted to you - no matter how big or small the signs.

Nighttime Signs of Attraction

Well, technically, there is no difference between night- or daytime signs of attraction.


By nighttime, I refer to social venues like a bar, a café, a karaoke bar, a nightclub, a party, etc.


In these environments, the same signs apply as during the daytime in non-social environments.


But there are a few extra signs due to the fact that it’s a social gathering.


The main difference is that people go to social venues with the goal of meeting new people.


And unlike people that walk around in the mall or the supermarket, they usually stay a longer time in the social venue. They’re not running an errand.


Because of these conditions, women can show their attraction to men in many more ways.


Here are a few signs to watch for in social venues.

Signs That Women Are Available and Open To Being Approached

Usually when women are available, they are open to being approached.


And when women are looking to be approached by men, they usually hang out in different areas inside social venues than when they don’t want to be approached.


When they are available and/or open to being approached, women will usually position themselves in areas where they can see everybody and where there is lots of traffic.


Let’s take a bar as an example.


When women are available, they will usually position themselves at the bar, a high-traffic area or at a place where they can see everybody that comes in.


This will allow them to get the most attention and also to spot guys they might be interested in.


But when women are not open to meeting guys, when they just want to hang out with their friends, they’ll usually find a place that’s more hidden in the club—a place where they won’t be noticed that much.


That way they avoid being interrupted by guys trying to chat them up or get their number.


Also, when women are available and looking for a guy, they usually will wear sexier clothes. Again, that’s because they want to draw as much attention to themselves as possible.


As you know, women usually don’t approach men. It’s men that approach women.


So, the way they increase their chances of guys approaching them is to draw more attention to themselves.


They do this by dressing sexier and putting themselves in places where there is lots of traffic.


So now that you know how to spot women that are available, let’s see how you can spot if they are open to being approached by YOU.

Signs She’s Open To Being Approached By You

Here are some more micro-signs that indicate women want YOU to approach them in social venues.


Body Language Cues
Her foot pointing toward you.


Wherever someone’s foot is pointing is where that person’s interest lies.


So if a woman is pointing a foot toward you, that’s a 99% certainty that she’s into you.


Also, just as during the daytime, eye contact and smiling are definitely signs of attraction.


Hair Flicking


When women are attracted to a guy, they will usually flick their hair.


Here’s a nice little trick I often use.


When in a venue, I will walk up to a group of women, and without looking at them and from my peripheral vision, I’ll check if they flick their hair.


I’ve found that if they flick their hair it’s a pretty accurate sign they are attracted to me.


Preening
When women are attracted to a guy, they will preen themselves. They re-apply lipstick, check if their clothes are sitting correctly, sit up straighter so their breasts are emphasized better, etc.


They do this because they want to make the best impression possible.


Proximity
Also, when girls are attracted to you, they will make it easy for you to come talk to them.


The way they do this is by giving you proximity.


Here are some examples. They might come dance somewhere in close proximity to you.


Or they might come stand next to you.


Sometimes when you move to another place in the venue, you’ll suddenly notice the same group of girls standing close to you again. Has that ever happened to you? It probably has.


Those girls were DEEPLY attracted to you!


Walking By You and Brushing Against You
Whenever I’m in a venue and I feel someone passing by, brushing against my back, I always check to see if there is enough room for them to pass without brushing against me.


If there is enough room but they brushed against me, it means they are attracted to me. Why else would a woman brush against you if she has enough space to pass without doing so?


Also, be aware when the next thing happens.


Usually when you pass by somebody’s front side and you’re not attracted to that person, you will pass them with your back toward their face. But if you like the person, you will pass by them with your head and body toward their face.


So when girls pass by your front side with their front side toward you, you can be pretty sure she’s attracted to you.


Walking By You Often
When women are standing further away from a guy they are attracted to, they will usually go to the bathroom much more often or they’ll go say hi to their friends more frequently.


They’ll even go say hi to people they wouldn’t normally say hi to.


All this is because they want to pass by the guy they are attracted to as much as possible.


That allows them to come close to him. This way he can smell their scent better, or they can better show their face or their eyes to him. Again, anything to get his attention.


Becoming Louder
Women can also become more over-the-top in their reactions when they are attracted to you.


They might start having exaggerated smiles or laughs, etc. All this, again, is to attract your attention.

Attraction Signals When You’re Talking To Women

So, you’ve spotted women that are available, and you approached them.


How do you know they are attracted to you when you are talking to them?


Here are some signs.


They Start Asking You Questions
When a woman asks you a question, it means she’s interested in you. If not, she wouldn’t keep the conversation going by asking a question.


Instead, she’ll do her best to let the conversation die or even come up with an excuse to leave.


Of course, in social circles that would not always be true. I mean, if you’re invited to a dinner party at a friend’s home and you’re sitting next to a woman at the table, it’s normal that she’ll ask you questions. She’s being socially savvy.


So in that context, a question would not be an accurate sign. You would need to look for other signs.


Her Friends Disappear
One of the best signs to me has always been when her friends disappear.


Think about it! Why would her friends leave her alone with a stranger? The only reason they would do that is when they know she’s attracted to him.


By them leaving, they allow her to have a more intimate conversation with you.


She Gives You Her Full Attention
In general, what you want to be looking for is if she gives you her full attention. Is she fully listening to you? Or is she half-listening to you and looking over your shoulder to see if there is somebody more interesting?


Touching You
When a woman touches you while talking to you, you can be sure she’s attracted to you.


And if she ever hits you on the arm, it’s really game on!


Looking At Your Lips, Tilting Her Head, Or Playing With Her Hair Or Her Jewelry
And, of course, we also have the more classic attraction signals, like if she looks at your lips, tilts her head to the side, plays with her hair or plays with her jewelry.


When women play with their hair, it stimulates the skin on their head. Try it with yourself.


It feels good to make curls in your hair with your fingers. It’s almost like you’re giving yourself a soft massage on the head.


When a woman is giving herself these feelings when talking to you, she’s opening herself up for physical pleasure.


In fact, she’s literally pleasuring herself while talking to you. It means she’s imagining being physically intimate with you or at least she’s open to the idea.


There you go! You now know a LOT of signs of attraction. But as discussed earlier, there is one that is more important than all of the others combined. If you focus just on this one, you can forget about all the others.


It’s the one attraction signal to rule them all. You’ll see why in just a second. Keep reading!

The Number-One Sure Sign Of Attraction

It’s all well and good to be able to recognize these signs of attraction. They build your self-confidence and can increase your success rate.


But as I said in the beginning of this article, there’s a tremendous downside to knowing these signs too.


In other words, they can also DECREASE your success rate!


“What’s that you say, Nick? Decrease my success rate?”


Let me explain.


What if a woman doesn’t give you these signals?


When women don’t give off signs of attraction, most men go into self-sabotage mode.


They think the woman isn’t interested.


NOTHING IS FURTHER FROM THE TRUTH!


Some women give off very obvious signs, some give off very subtle signs, and others don’t give off ANY SIGNS AT ALL.


Most men let their actions be guided by these signs. As a result, they miss many opportunities to connect with and date truly awesome women.


But luckily for you, Uncle Nick’s got you covered.


Here’s the only sign you’ll ever need to look for to know if you can proceed further or not.


Here’s the golden rule for interacting with women:


Never look for the presence of green lights—look for the absence of red lights.


I’m going to say that one more time.

Never look for the presence of green lights. Look for the ABSENCE of red lights.

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In other words:


If She’s Talking To You, It’s On!


If not, she would find an excuse to leave.


That insight alone will turn you into a rock star with women faster than any other dating technique out there.


As I said earlier, many women don’t give off any signs when they are attracted to a man.


So, the only way to find out if she’s really into you is to physically escalate the relationship.


But, of course, you want to do it in a smooth way.


For example, if you were on a date for two hours with a woman and you didn’t even touch her once, then don’t launch in for a kiss at the end of the date.


That would be a too big of jump.


Here at Team IB we use a very special escalation sequence that we call “Invisible Micro Escalation”.


It’s a way to physically escalate with women that is based on the principle of micro-increments.


So, if she were to ever object to any of your escalating touches, it would not be awkward at all.


That’s because your incremental touch would be so tiny that she wouldn’t even object to it, but you would notice she would be slightly more uncomfortable with your touch.


That will allow you to back down for some time and then escalate again later on when she’s more comfortable with you. And all of that without ever trespassing or getting rejected.


Invisible Micro Escalation consists of three categories of touches:


• Social touches


• Seductive touches


• Sexual touches


It’s critical that you learn how to use all three of them, and it’s even more critical to know exactly in what sequence to use them.


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Conclusion

Signs of attraction come in many forms and shapes.


Some women give off very obvious signs, while others give off minimal signs. Many women don’t give of ANY signs at all.


Having the ability to observe these signs will increase your confidence.


There’s just something about going about your day and seeing women being attracted to you.


However, focusing on these attraction signals also has a downside.


It can actually decrease your success rate.


Most men give up when they don’t get signs of attraction. They think she’s not interested in them.


They usually are DEAD WRONG.


The solution to this is to stop looking for the presence of green lights, and instead start looking for the ABSENCE OF RED LIGHTS.


The best way to do this is to keep escalating the relation physically.


There is a 100% REJECTION-PROOF way to physically escalate with a women called “The Invisible Micro Escalation Sequence.”


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