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By the worlds #1 dating coach for Introverted Men - Nick Neeson.
What does a girl like?
It’s the age-old question that men have asked themselves.
They even made a movie about it, called "What Women Want."
But let me tell ya.
Even though that was a great flick…
You won’t find the answers you’re looking for in there.
But…
You “will” find them in this article.
And btw…
I’m not talking about the typical BS “opinions” you find in other articles!
No, no, no!
Instead…
You'll learn what girls like, according to “science”!
Okay.
Let’s get started!
It’s the age-old question that men have asked themselves.
They even made a movie about it, called "What Women Want."
But let me tell ya.
Even though that was a great flick…
You won’t find the answers you’re looking for in there.
But…
You “will” find them in this article.
And btw…
I’m not talking about the typical BS “opinions” you find in other articles!
No, no, no!
Instead…
You'll learn what girls like, according to “science”!
Okay.
Let’s get started!
What Does A Girl Like? It Depends On The PEN Model
What Does A Girl Like? It Depends On The PEN Model
The other day…
My girlfriend and I were scrolling through my Netflix profile…
And then through hers.
And man…
What a difference!
Mine is filled with action movies and thrillers.
Hers is filled with drama and romantic comedies.
And it’s not just because I’m a man and she’s a woman.
My mother’s list has a lot of action movies, too.
So why am I telling you this?
What’s the link with what girls like?
Well...
It’s this:
What women like…
Differs from woman to woman!
You see…
Just like different women prefer different flicks…
They also preferent different types of men.
Now…
Before you go all MBTI on her!
Be VERY careful!
You see, there are many type indicators.
MBTI, DISC, the Enneagram, etc.
But they’re NOT helpful in dating.
Why?
Well…
First…
Cause most are too complex.
For example, MBTI has 16 different profiles.
It’s just impossible to figure out which type she has just by interacting with her on a date.
Second…
There is no proof these type indicators help in the dating process.
But…
There is one model that is easy to use…
And has been scientifically proven in the context of dating.
That model is the PEN Model.
Basically, it says there are three types of women.
P stands for psychotic.
E stands for extrovert.
N stands for neurotic.
Scientific studies have found that…
Psychotic women love the bad boy type.
Extroverted women love the leader type.
And neurotic women love the nice-guy type.
Btw…
By nice-guy type, I don’t mean non-assertive pushovers.
I'm talking about thoughtful, nice men…
That will do really nice things for women…
Without being pushovers.
Big difference!
So…
If you want to know what a girl likes…
The first thing you want to do is find out her PEN type.
Then…
Show her more of the traits she wants.
If she's psychotic, show more bad boy traits.
Like being unpredictable, spontaneous, etc.
If she’s an extrovert, show more leadership traits.
Like organizing an event.
If she’s a neurotic, be very thoughtful.
Now…
As you could see…
The PEN model is all about tailoring your approach to different types of women…
But…
Did you know…
There are also “universal” things women like, regardless of their type?
For example…
The Number ONE Thing All Girls Like (Even Brad Pitt Couldn’t Get A Date Until He Discovered This)
The Number ONE Thing All Girls Like
I once saw an interview with Brad Pitt.
In that interview, he said…
He couldn’t get a date when he arrived in Hollywood!
Yes, seriously.
Brad Pitt…
The sexiest man in the world couldn’t get a date!
When I saw that interview, it made me curious.
How was that possible?
So…
I started researching.
And in doing so, I came across one of his early interviews.
He couldn't hold eye contact.
Had jerky moves.
Plus…
He sounded like he didn’t have a purpose in life.
That’s when I realized…
He had low-status behaviors.
And that’s the reason he couldn’t get a date.
We know from evolutionary psychology...
That the number one thing women are attracted to in men…
Is status!
Cause…
Mating with a higher status male…
Increased their chances of survival…
As well as their offspring's!
Consequently…
Women are repulsed by lower-status behaviors.
Cause it increased the probability of early death.
In fact…
Women are SO REPULSED by low-status behavior…
They wouldn't even go on a date with the most beautiful man in the world!
Incredible, isn’t it?
Now here’s the good news.
Evolutionary psychologists have discovered that…
Being higher status has nothing to do with how much money you make or which car you drive.
Why?
Cause our attraction switches (the things that make us attracted to others) …
Were developed during caveman days.
And in those times, there was no money or cars!
It was all about social status in the group.
And that social status came from your character traits.
For example…
Being assertive, taking action, the ability to socialize, etc.
All these qualities gave you a better social status within the group.
And the higher your status in the group…
The higher your chances of survival.
Are you getting this?
Good!
Cause it’s crucial.
Okay…
What Else Does A Girl Like? Try This Trick From American Pie!
What Else Does A Girl Like? Try This Trick From American Pie!
Last week…
Lucy and I came across American Pie while browsing Netflix!
We instantly felt nostalgic and decided to watch it.
And man…
I forgot so many scenes from that movie…
It was like watching it for the first time again!
Remember when Jim, Finch, Chris, and Kevin made a pact that they would lose their virginity before the end of high school?
Yeah?
Well…
Remember how at some point, Finch became super popular?
All the galls wanted to go to the prom with him!
And Jim, Chris, and Kevin were dumbfounded.
Cause they had no clue how Finch managed to become so popular – OVERNIGHT!
Btw, do you remember how he did it?
If you can’t remember…
It’s okay…
I forgot about it too.
Here’s what happened.
Remember Jessica (Vicky’s sexually experienced friend)?
Yeah?
Is it all coming back?
Finch paid Jessica to tell the whole school that he was a badass in bed!
And suddenly, every girl went bananas for him.
Is there a point to this?
Sure thing!
Girls want what “other girls” want.
It’s a psychological attraction trigger that has been scientifically proven over and over again.
Women become more attracted to a man when they know other women find him attractive.
It’s called pre-selection
Meaning…
The man is pre-selected by other women.
And it’s one of the most powerful things to make women want you!
So…
If you want a girl to like you…
Make sure you flip that pre-selection switch!
Okay…
What Else Does A Girl Like? Ever heard of Oxytocin?
What Else Does A Girl Like? Ever heard of Oxytocin?
The other day I overheard a conversation between two guys.
They were talking about the love of a mother for her child.
And why it’s so powerful.
One of the guys said to the other one...
It was because of the "Love Chemical" called “Oxytocin."
The reason I bring it up…
Is because...
Not only does Oxytocin make women love their children…
It also makes them love men!
You see…
Oxytocin is a love chemical that our brain releases.
And the more you can trigger it in a woman, the more she’ll love you.
No matter how you look.
You can compare it to an XTC pill.
When people take it, they feel love for other people…
Regardless of their looks.
Heck, some people on XTC even fall in I love with trees!
(I saw it in a documentary once.)
So…
If Oxytocin makes women love you…
The question becomes…
How do you trigger it?
Turns out there are four ways to do it.
And we’ll cover them one by one starting by…
Girls Like Good Conversations (Oxytocin Trigger 1)
Girls Like Good Conversations
Ever noticed women have a more loving nature than men?
Also…
Ever noticed women talk more than men?
Yep?
Could there be a link?
Turns out there is.
Cause the first Oxytocin trigger is conversation.
That’s right.
Conversation triggers Oxytocin.
So…
How can you use this to your advantage?
Simple.
Become a great conversationalist, and women will love you!
Next…
Girls Like Laughter (Oxytocin Trigger 2)
Girls Like Laughter
Over the years, I've talked to many women.
And if there’s one thing that keeps coming back…
It’s this…
Women like a guy that can make ‘em laugh!
How many times have you heard galls say they want a guy with a sense of humor?
A LOT of times, right?
Well…
Now you know why!
It’s because laughter triggers Oxytocin.
The good news, tho…
Is that you don’t have to be funny to make women laugh.
You just need to be “fun.”
And one of the ways you can be fun is by teasing them.
I remember…
One day I was out for drinks with two hot chicks.
It was a beautiful sunny day, and we were sitting outside.
And I was teasing the hell out of one of them.
She couldn’t stop laughing…
Now the exciting part is this…
While she was giggling because of my teases…
She said to the other girl…
“See, I told you he’s funny!”.
But I wasn’t even being funny.
I was just teasing her.
The point?
Women love to laugh.
Whether it's through you being funny or teasing.
Doesn't matter.
Laughter is laughter.
Oxytocin is Oxytocin.
Okay.
Let’s talk about what else girls like…
Girls Like To Be Touched (Oxytocin Trigger 3)
Girls Like To Be Touched
The third thing that triggers Oxytocin, according to science, is…
Touch.
And that’s why women love to be touched.
Cause they want a hit of that love chemical!
Now…
Of course…
They don't like to be touched by lower-status men…
But they do like to be touched by higher-status men.
So…
Assuming you’ve worked on your higher status behaviors…
The next thing you want to do is…
Touch women!
A LOT!
Because the more you touch them…
The more they like you.
But how do you do it?
And how do you do it a lot…
Without making them feel uncomfortable?
Well…
There’s a simple touching sequence you can use…
Which allows you to go from stranger all the way to the bedroom…
Without ever trespassing.
Here’s how it works.
There are three types of touches.
Social touches.
Seductive touches.
And sexual touches.
Social touching is when you touch women in socially acceptable places.
For example.
Shaking hands, touching her hand when you make a point…
All these are socially acceptable.
And you can do them with a stranger.
Once she’s comfortable with your social touches…
You move to more seductive ones.
For example…
You might put your hand on her hips, touch her hair, etc.
You use seductive touches all the way to the first kiss…
And from that point on, you can use more sexual touches.
For example…
You might at some point touch her breasts, etc.
The objective of sexual touches is to escalate all the way to sex!
When you follow this touching method…
You’ll touch women A LOT!
Cause there are many, Many, MANY ways to touch women for each of those three types of touches.
Which means you’ll trigger a lot of Oxytocin in them…
And the more you do that, the more they like you.
Which will ultimately result in…
Girls Like Sex (Oxytocin Trigger 4)
Girls Like Sex
Yep…
You read that right.
The fourth Oxytocin trigger, according to science…
Is “sex.”
So…
If you want girls to REALLY like you…
You better brush up on your sex skills.
Cause the most amounts of Oxytocin are released when women orgasm.
Yes, gentlemen…
The key to a woman's heart is through her vagina!
Something to meditate on, ha!
Cause it’s a powerful lesson.
You see…
Most guys try to win a woman’s heart by going for her heart!
They don’t understand that you want to go for her body first.
Cause that’s where the love chemical gets triggered!
Okay.
Next tip…
How To Know If Girls Think You Suck Or Not
How To Know If Girls Think You Suck Or Not
I recently read a business article about powerful brands.
And it was all about the fact that the best brands are the most polarizing ones.
The article also said the worst thing that can happen to a brand is that people are indifferent to it.
Think about it.
Major religions.
Major political parties.
Giant industries like big pharma, big oil, big media, big tech, etc.
Jezus Christ.
Donald Trump.
Dr. Fauci.
Black Lives Matter.
Bill Gates.
What do they all have in common?
People either love them or hate them.
But there is no indifference.
It’s the same with being successful with women and dating.
If you fear polarizing women…
You’ll be holding yourself back and leave so much love on the table…
That it’s abusive to yourself!
But…
If you give zero fugks about what women think about you…
You might be surprised how much better your dating life will be.
Why is that?
Cause you’ll be much more polarizing.
Which means…
Some women will LOVE you, others will HATE you.
But…
NONE will be indifferent to you.
Btw…
Do you want to know how to be positively polarizing to the hottest and highest quality women…?
It’s simple.
Be masculine.
Being masculine is positively polarizing to the most beautiful and feminine women.
Why?
Cause feminine women want masculine men.
Opposites attract!
Conclusion On What Girls Like
Conclusion On What Girls Like
There’s a lot of opinions out there about what girls like.
But it's merely that… "opinions."
Meaning…
They're not grounded in science.
In this article, you discovered what women want, according to science!
Apply these tips to your interactions with women…
And you WILL be more successful.
I know cause it’s what I personally use.
And…
It’s what I’ve been teaching introverted men for the past 25+ years.
Hope you liked this article.
And have a great day!
Nick
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