Today I’d like to talk about a question most of my students ask me:
“How can I impress women?"
Knowing how to impress girls is a top concern for most men.
Why is that?
Well, our most basic primitive need as a species is to survive and reproduce.
We unconsciously know that if we want to succeed in reproducing, we need to be able to attract women.
So, the desire to impress women is driven by our instinct of wanting to attract them.
In fact, when a woman says she is impressed by a man, she’s actually saying that she feels some kind of attraction toward that man.
What we are really talking about here is attraction.
Therefore, the best way to impress women is knowing how to trigger attraction within them.
Before I show you some ways to impress (or attract) women, let me give you a few pointers on getting into the right mindset to do so.
Knowing how to impress a woman starts with the right mindset.
There are two crucial mindsets you must have:
1. You are the value.
Many men think that the way to impress women is to buy them gifts, brag about themselves, take women to expensive places, or show off how much money they have.
That’s totally wrong.
Just the fact that you are a man is why she wants to see you. In fact, you don’t need anything at all to attract women.
Studies have shown that just putting a man and a woman physically close to each other builds attraction.
Yes, you read that right. You don’t have to do anything to attract her. You just need to not mess things up.
Sadly, though, that’s exactly what happens. Men mess up the natural attraction that occurs between them and women by trying to impress them.
Realizing that YOU are the value will give you more self-confidence.
This mindset will also attract the right kind of women. You will avoid gold-diggers.
2. The best way to impress a woman is by not trying to impress her at all.
This might seem counter-intuitive at first. But once you understand female psychology, it’s actually quite simple.
You see, when you come from the mindset that you want to impress her, you are subconsciously telling yourself that she is better than you.
And when you try to impress her, she will pick up on that. Seriously. Think about it for moment.
If you think of her as being on the same level as you or as being on a lower level then you, would you try to impress her?
Probably not.
Your mantra would probably be, “She should be happy that I even want to go on a date with her.”
Now, here’s the thing. Women want to date men that they perceive to be of higher value than them, or at least of equal value to them.
Every time you try to impress a woman she is subconsciously registering that you are of lower value then her. This in turn kills the attraction that she has or might have for you.
So when you try to impress a woman, you are actually achieving the complete opposite.
STOP THAT IMMEDIATELY.
Easier said than done, you might say. And how exactly do you go about impressing a women without trying to impress her?
Here’s how.
How to impress a woman: the only three ways to do it.
Whatever you have read, or whatever people have told you in the past, there are only three ways to impress women.
Everything that a man can do to impress women falls into one of the following three categories:
Powers, Personality, and Presentation.
Presentation: your looks and the image that you project.
Powers: your skills.
Personality: your inner world.
Below I’m going to break down each of the three ways to impress women.
When you’re reading this, it’s important to understand that everybody has different strengths.
You should focus where your strengths are. If you are really good-looking, than you will want to use that natural advantage in your presentation.
If you are not particularly good-looking, then you want to focus on your powers and personality.
One is not better than the other. It’s just different ways to impress or attract women. In fact, women are not impressed by good-looking men if they have no personality or powers.
Let’s start with personality first.