Introverted men always ask me: “Why is it that the women that I really want don't want me? And why do the women that I don't care about really, really, REALLY want me?” Well, asking the question is giving the answer. It's because you don't care. When you truly are carefree, you become instantly attractive to women. It's just human nature to want the things we can't get. We pursue that which retreats from us.