Step 6: The Kiss Her ‘Till Her Knees Tremble Technique
You wanted to learn how to kiss a girl, right? Then this is the moment that you’ve been waiting for.
I’ll give you a great technique that will make your first kiss stand out like a stallion in a prairie full of dwarf donkeys.
So how does it work? Let’s look at some guidelines first.
You can look at kissing in the same way as kiss priming where you use micro escalation. It’s the same with the actual kiss.
You don’t go all the way and put your tongue in her throat when you kiss her for the first time. That would be too much! You need to build it up gradually.
Here’s how to kiss a girl for the first time:
• Gently go for the kiss.
• Kiss her lips softly.
• Close your eyes. Feel her. Appreciate her.
• Upper lip/lower lip. Kiss her upper lip, then kiss her lower lip. And alternate this. Don’t put her lips inside your mouth. Just gently kiss her upper lip, then kiss her lower lip.
• You can use A LITTLE, LITTLE, LITTLE BIT of your tongue when you kiss her upper lip/lower lip. Don’t put your tongue in her mouth. But use it as an extension of your lips so that when you alternate between kissing her upper/lower lip, your tongue touches her lips very gently.
• Enjoy the texture of her lips on yours. Try to feel the shape of her lips using yours.
• Do this for 3 to 5 seconds max and be the first one to stop.
I guarantee you that this kiss will make her weak at her knees. And the fact that you were the one that pulled back first will make her desperate for more.
So after you kissed her ‘till her knees tremble, you just go back to more conversation and kiss her again later.
When you kiss her later, you use the Kiss Her ‘Till Her Knees Tremble Technique again, but you gradually escalate your kissing depending on how intensely she kisses you back.
There are 4 things that you can escalate:
1. The duration of your kiss. Kiss her longer and longer. But don’t make too big jumps. Don’t go from 3 seconds to 1 minute. It’s better if you micro escalate.
So, for example you go from 3 seconds to 8 seconds, and then maybe 15 seconds, etc… You don’t want to be seen as needy or desperate.
2. While kissing her, use your hands and gently touch her face. Also, run the back of your index finger down her cheek until it’s under her chin.
3. While kissing her, you can also caress her body, like her shoulders, back, arms and waist. Don’t touch her breasts or erogenous zones at this point though.
4. How much tongue you use. You can use more and more tongue until you really are French kissing. The same applies here; don’t go from no tongue to putting your tongue all the way in her throat. Instead, micro escalate it and feel how she responds.
Ok, so you’ve kissed her multiple times and you had more than one date, or if you’re reading this and you already have a girlfriend, then you are ready for…