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By the worlds #1 dating coach for Introverted Men - Nick Neeson.
Do you feel “locked out” when it comes to romance, dating, and success with women?
Like you’re on the outside looking in… watching other men having the time of their lives while you’re stuck out in the cold?
If that’s the case, I know you must feel pretty unhappy about it. Probably even a bit hopeless or desperate.
Many introverted men have been there… I coach them every day. I know how painful and frustrating it is.
That’s why right now, for every introvert who’s in that situation, I want to share one of my greatest discoveries to get this part of your life handled.
It’s a secret key that, when used in the right way, will finally set you free… and unlock life-changing new success when it comes to attracting, dating, and becoming physically close with beautiful women.
Like you’re on the outside looking in… watching other men having the time of their lives while you’re stuck out in the cold?
If that’s the case, I know you must feel pretty unhappy about it. Probably even a bit hopeless or desperate.
Many introverted men have been there… I coach them every day. I know how painful and frustrating it is.
Do you feel “locked out” when it comes to romance, dating, and success with women?
That’s why right now, for every introvert who’s in that situation, I want to share one of my greatest discoveries to get this part of your life handled.
It’s a secret key that, when used in the right way, will finally set you free… and unlock life-changing new success when it comes to attracting, dating, and becoming physically close with beautiful women.
But before I reveal this unfair secret, I want you to answer this deceptively easy question:
What Is Your Biggest Weakness As An Introverted Man?
I mean, if you don’t have success with women the way you want it, you must be messing SOMETHING up. Right?When I talk to introverted men, I always hear two things.
1. They believe their introversion is a problem. This is mostly due to reading dating advice. Most dating advice out there (and by most I mean 99%) is focused on extroverted men.
I’m not kidding. When you read that advice as an introvert, you can’t help but feel like you are an outcast that doesn’t belong in this world. You start to think there’s something inherently wrong with you.
2. They tell me their biggest strength is one-on-one conversations and deeply connecting with women. But they fail to create feelings of attraction, and then get slam-dunked in the friend-zone.
Well…
What if your ability to get friend-zoned, was a magical key that could unlock mind-blowing success with women?
What if this wasn’t a weakness, but a strength you never learned to leverage in the right way?
What if it was caused by all the dating advice you’ve read?
What if everything you’ve read about dating so far is DEAD WRONG for introverts?
Seriously. I’m not kidding. Not on this subject. It’s too important.
What if your introversion, and your ability to get friend-zoned, was a magical key that could unlock mind-blowing success with women?
Well, my friend, IT IS.
And I’m going to show you exactly how to turn your “perceived” weaknesses into your greatest strengths.
Did you know you can turn the friend-zone into an endless stream of dates with beautiful women that will go as far as fighting to be with you?
I’m going to show you how to turn the friend-zone into an endless stream of dates with beautiful women that will go as far as fighting to be with you.
Literally.
I know it sounds like a lot of blah blah blah, but stay with me and see for yourself.
So without further ado, here’s the secret:
Being friend-zoned is not a bad thing. It’s the best thing that can happen to you.
“Nick, are you out of your mind? I’ve been there. I know it’s a lonely and scary place, and it feels like you’ll never get out of it. Stop with the pep talk, dude!”
Well: I’M GOING TO SAY IT AGAIN!
Tweet ThisHere’s why.
First of all, if you screw up with her but are NOT friend-zoned, it’s game over. She’ll disappear out of your life. POOF. The end.
If you are friend-zoned, you will at least see her again. That will allow you to use my seven Jedi hacks to get back out of the friend-zone and into the sexy-zone.
Second, surrounding yourself with female friends is the easiest strategy to get an endless stream of dates with beautiful women that are exactly your type – without having to work like a dog or do thousands of approaches, but instead have them handed to you on a golden platter and already attracted to you.
That’s right, my friend: surrounding yourself with female friends is your solution to turbo-charge your love life.
And the great news about this is that it leverages your natural strengths – your ability to make friends with women.
Here’s how it works.
Having a few female friends is the equivalent of outsourcing your dating.
Your female friends will introduce you to other beautiful women and set up dates for you.
The only thing you need to do is form a close friendship with three to five (maximum) women.
The idea is to invite them to do things with you.
Here are some examples.
You do a dinner at your place, and there will be three or five women and maybe one of your male friends. You go to a restaurant, and there will be three women and maybe one male friend.
You go to an art exposé, and it will be you and your female friends. You go out to a nice bar on a Saturday evening, and it will be you and three to five girls and maybe one male friend.
Or you can also invite just the women, without your male friend.
I think you get the picture.
And yes, the idea is just to be friends with them. Nothing more. You don’t need to learn any dating skills.
You only need your introverted qualities of connecting with them, being thoughtful, and caring about them. Just friends, nothing more. The rest will take care of itself.
Why does this work?
When you put a group of women together, there’s something very powerful that happens.
Whe you are surrounded by women, you create a natural push-pull effect. The women around you get validation and great feelings from talking to you, but then feel a little left out when you start taking to another girl.
Because you are the only man in the group (or at least there will be more women than men), you’ll naturally have to spread your attention between the women.
When you are talking to one woman, she will feel good because she gets your attention, and the others will feel a little left out.
When you then turn to talk to another woman, the previous one will feel a little bit left out.
And so you create this kind of natural push-pull effect, where the women around you get validation and great feelings from talking to you, but then feel a little left out when you start taking to another girl.
It’s a bit like a mini emotional rollercoaster. All this makes them see you as an attractive, high-value man.
And even though you’re just friends with them, they can’t help but start to feel attracted to you – just by the very nature of you having to divide your attention.
And since one of your strengths as an introvert lies in one-on-one conversations, what you thought was your weakness suddenly becomes your biggest strength.
The only thing you’re doing is building one-on-one connections with each woman.
You see, you don’t need to be the loud extrovert that is the life of the party.
On the contrary, that would not work as well, because the extroverted guy would be talking to the whole group, trying to be the center of the attention, and keeping everyone entertained at the same time.
Because his strength doesn’t lie in one-on-one conversations, he wouldn’t be able to create the push-pull effect like you can.
You don’t need to be the loud extrovert that is the life of the party. You just need to build one-on-one connections with each woman. Attraction will happen automatically because of the group dynamic.
And even though you will be friends with these girls, they will be open to being intimate with you.
That’s because they see you as an attractive man and have to work for your attention. They’ll see you as a friend with benefits. When that happens, you’ll realize that the friend-zone is A MYTH.
Women become intimate with their friends all the time. THERE IS NO FRIEND-ZONE. There is only a sex zone and a no-sex zone.
But let’s not get off topic here. The idea is not to date or sleep with your close group of female friends. I only told you this because I wanted to show you the friend-zone doesn’t exist.
The idea here is to really keep them as your friends.
Here’s what will happen: When you invite them to your place, or do some activity with them, you can tell them to invite their friends.
That way you’ll have a continuous stream of women coming into your life. The best part?
You will not have to approach them—they will be introduced to you. And even better, your female friends will tell them you are a great guy.
They will already be attracted to you before you even meet them. Your friends did the hard part for you, which is creating attraction.
The only thing you need to do is build a connection (which you are already good at), and spread your attention between her and your friends.
Your female friends will even help you go on dates with their friends. They’ll set it up for you. It really IS as easy as that.
The other part of this strategy is also a kicker! When you go out with your female friends, other women in the venue will be attracted to you like there’s no tomorrow. That’s because of the pre-selection effect.
Pre-selection states that women will find a man more attractive if other women find that man attractive.
Because the other women in the venue will see you walking in surrounded by women, they will think you are some kind of rock star.
When you go out with your female friends, other women in the venue will be attracted to you like there’s no tomorrow. They will think you are some kind of a rock star.
Oh, and you won’t even need to approach them.
Many women will spontaneously start conversations with you. If you see a woman that you like, you can also ask one of your female friends to go talk to her and bring her over to you.
They will love to do that for you. Women love to help men with their love life. They love to play matchmaker.
By the way, you can use this strategy for any kind of venue you like to frequent.
If you like clubs and bars, by all means, go. But if you like art, good food, or any other activity, just take your female friends with you.
Or do a weekly or biweekly dinner at your place. Just do whatever suits your tastes.
The point is, you’ll be using your natural strength of building connections, and you’ll have a mini entourage that will do the rest for you.
The third way it will help you is when you talk to women during the week, you can ask them out in a stealthy way.
That means you can invite them to come hang out with you and your friends at that event you’re going to. You can tell them to bring their friends, too.
This is especially useful when you want to ask someone out that is in your social circle, work, or hobby club.
That’s because it’s not a date request, but a social invitation. It’s a stealthy way of asking women out without any risk of rejection or upsetting people in your entourage.
If you live in a small town and want to meet many women without being labeled a player, this strategy is the perfect solution.
The third way it will help you is when you talk to women during the week, you can ask them out in a stealthy way by giving them social invitations instead of date requests. This is especially useful when you want to ask someone out that is in your social circle, work, or hobby club.
If you live in a small town and want to meet many women without being labeled a player, this strategy is the perfect solution.
And once they’re with you and your close group of friends, they will become attracted to you – without using tricks, lies and manipulation.
They’ll see you with all these women and, because of the preselection effect, will feel attraction for you. Also, as I mentioned earlier, your female friends will say nice things about you and help to set up a date if necessary.
The only thing you need to do is just be you. Meaning, connect with them and spread your attention between them and your friends. The preselection, your friends, and the natural push-pull effect will take care of the rest.
Can you see how your perceived weakness is actually your biggest strength with this strategy?
Extroverts are not better than introverts. And introverts are not better than extroverts. You need to learn to leverage your strengths in the right environment.
When a lion and a shark fight, who wins?
It depends on where they fight. If they fight in the water, the shark wins. If they fight on the land, the lion wins.
Get it?
Your introversion is a strength. Period.
But what if you don’t have any female friends yet?
How do you get there? How do you build up those relationships?
Well, again, you use you biggest quality to get started.
What’s your biggest quality? Your ability to connect and make friends with women (and people in general).
So, use it to your advantage.
Here are the exact step steps to follow:
1. Start with the women you know.
Take your phone, your address book, your Facebook, your Twitter account, your email, etc. Basically, gather all the tools that connect you to others.
Then, go through all the contacts in those tools.
Look for female family members (nieces, sisters, etc).
Look for female friends. Even look for girls that have friend-zoned you.
Contact them and ask them to join you in doing some activity. This might be going out to a nice bar over the weekend, or going to an art museum. It doesn’t matter. Pick something you like and that you think they’ll like too.
2. Add new women.
When you talk to a woman at work, or in your social groups, or when you’re out with a friend, just tell her she’s friendly and has a really nice energy. Your goal is just to befriend her. Nothing more.
Then talk to her about an event you are going to. Describe it. Tell her to join you. Tell her to bring her friends and arrange the day and time right there.
The second step is to add new women to the group. And if you didn’t find any female friends in step one, then just start with this step.
This step is much easier than getting women to become romantically interested in you. Why?
Because you don’t need to do all the steps like you would if you were trying to date them.
You don’t need to attract them and arouse them. You only need to build connections and make friends with them, which is something you are naturally good at.
The way you do it is easy.
When you talk to a woman at work, or in your social groups, or when you’re out with a friend, just tell her she’s friendly and has a really nice energy.
Then tell her she should join you. Tell her about the event you are going to. Describe it. Tell her to bring her friends and arrange the day and time right there.
And remember, your objective is not to attract her or to date her. You just want to become friends with her.
If you sometimes go out with a male friend, you can do the same thing. Every time you are out with your friend, just talk to women.
Befriend them and ask them to join you the next time. And don’t forget to tell them to bring their friends.
If you do this for three or five times, pretty quickly you will be in a situation where on a Friday or Saturday night you can call a few women that will want to go out with you.
And again, the beauty of it is that they will bring their friends too.
Now again, if you don’t like to go out, you can do the same by inviting them to an art museum, a dinner party at your place, or whatever you like.
3. Form your close group of female friends.
What will naturally happen is that with some women you will get along better and form deeper connections than with other women in the group.
If you do this a few times, you’ll quickly become good friends with some of the women.
These women will become your regular women that will come out with you, join you for activities, and come to your place for dinners or home events.
Aside from that, you’re going to have their friends that will come along, different women you meet during the week, and the women that you will meet when out with your female friends.
Once you are at this point, just kick back, relax, and let your female friends do the work for you. They will make the other women attracted to you and want to go on dates with you.
IMPORTANT: The point is not to take advantage of your female friends or to use them just to get women. It has to be a REAL friendship. It has to be a win-win.
Here is what your female friends will win through this.
There is tremendous value for women to have a male friend.
You see, most women have lots of men in their life. But most of them are chasing them and trying to get something from them.
If you are really, genuinely their friend, it has so many advantages for them.
First, they get male energy and some flirty banter without having to date you. Women like male energy.
Second, you take care of them. If some guy comes to annoy them, you’ll act like you’re their boyfriend. You’ll make sure nobody puts anything in their glass.
You make sure they get home safe. You send them texts to see if they’re back home safe. You invite them to cool places. You REALLY are their friend and act like a gentleman to them.
Conclusion
Being an introvert is not a weakness. It’s a strength if you use it the right way.Despite popular beliefs, being good at befriending women is also not a weakness but a strength.
As an introvert, one of your strongest qualities lies in creating deep bonds with people and making friends.
Use that to create a close group of three to five female friends.
These female friends will then provide you with endless opportunities to date beautiful women, whether it’s through introducing you to their friends, being your wing-woman when out, or by the pre-selection effect of being surrounded by women.
You see, you don’t need much in the way of dating techniques to pull this off. You just need your ability to create friendships with women, and the rest gets taken care of by the environment you created.
But what do you do once you go on a one-on-one date with one of the women that you met through your female friends?
First dates can be really difficult for introverted men. And on a one-on-one date, your female friends won’t be there. You’ll need to add some extra things to your interaction with her.
Just connecting with her won’t be enough.
Granted, she will already be attracted to you due to pre-selection and the positive words your female friends spoke about you, but now you are on your own. You have to prove to her you are the real deal.
You’ll need to be able to escalate physically, or she’ll think you’re not interested in her and move on.
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